I really like this girl , but omg she is nuts....And shes playing with my emotions...
2006-11-16 18:06:54 · 18 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at my other relationship Questions, there ALL about her.....
2006-11-16 18:07:30 · update #1
Awww seems like you're head over heels with this girl.
Ok, so you think she's nuts, but you still like her. You know she's playing with your emotions but you still want her.
Let me tell you what happened to me a few years back....maybe it can help you figure something out...
I liked a guy for about 2 and a half years....and he knew I liked him. I don't know if this girl knows you like her or not or whether you told her your true feelings, but in my situation, I told the guy that I liked him. He didn't say anything to me about whether he liked me or not. But he started to play with my emotions....he made me think he liked me by flirting, trying to get my attention if I got upset at him, and all sorts of crap. There were days where he wanted to talk to me and get my attention and there were days he would want me to leave him be because he didn't want me around. At the end, he went behind my back and said horrible things about me to which I confronted him about and then I moved on.
I don't know what this girl is thinking and why she is playing with your emotions. Maybe when I read more of your questions I can answer those as well, but if she's playing games with you, then you need to leave her be and move on. There are probably other girls out there dying to get your attention but aren't because you are after this girl that just wants to play for your attention but nothing else.
Do you want to keep feeding her more attention or do you think you can find someone better then her who you can have a mature and open relationship with? Cause if this girl does end up being your girlfriend in the future, then honey, you are going to be up on your toes at all times with her games.
I say you should talk to her and find out what she wants. If she's vague about it or doesn't give you any sincere answers, move on.
2006-11-16 18:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Asia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually took the time to read your other questions about her, and it sounds to me like she genuinely likes you back. I think she may just feel vulnerable, like you are just trying to use HER and then toss her aside and laugh behind her back. You have a chance, but you have to be brave and direct with her. Let her know how deeply and genuinely sorry you are about telling her secret, and let her know that you consider her more than just a potential booty call. At this point, you will have to give her an ultimatum. Let her know that her indecisiveness about you is hurting you this much, and that you can't take it anymore. It is really unfair of her to let you believe that you MIGHT have a chance when she already knows damn well whether or not you do. Right now, she is making you very unhappy, so the relationship as it stands is not healthy for you. Something needs to change. I hope things work out for you, but understand that this girl probably comes with a lot of baggage. Be prepared for that.
2006-11-17 02:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not worth it. You don't need someone who is nuts (your words) and plays with your emotions. She most likely thinks this of you....like taking candy from a baby.
2006-11-17 02:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by no nickname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the positives outweigh the negatives? If so, go for it. If not, find somebody else, or just be friends with this girl. It does seem mean that she is playing with your emotions.
2006-11-17 02:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes playin with ur emotions then it means she taking advantage of u... Shes playin with ur mind... who knows she might be nice to u jus to get her something she wants n the next thing u know she is snobbing u... take a serious think about it... but i reckon u deserve beda
2006-11-17 02:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she's playing with your emotions? Did she tell you...or are you assuming? See, if you assume, you're putting yourself in the bad position and even if she is messin with you, you're the one with the problem. At least talk to her if you want to know if she messin with you. Otherwise...dont assume...it'll always end in misery and a buttload of drama!
Good Luck!
2006-11-17 02:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
judging by your other question she is confused she dosnt know if she likes you and personally if i was a guy i wouldnt waste my time on a girl that cant make up her mind you dont need that. if she can finally make up her mind then maybe okay but untill then dont wait on her to make up her mind then she knows that shes got u where she wants u. (i no how girls work) dont do it. ohh and you sound like a sweent guy u dont need a cutter on your hands.
2006-11-17 02:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is playing with your emotions then you should stop seeing her.
2006-11-17 02:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her...u already out of your own control...u need to use your brain...go take washing powder and wash your brain in washing machine...your will gonna go through hard times...lets groove
2006-11-17 02:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sleeping Soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really liked you then she wouldn't be acting this way and if your having problems like this already then can u imagine how it would be if your kept after her.....can u say DRAMA! GOOD LUCK
2006-11-17 02:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by honeyEMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋