i lost touch of myself. i guess that's what love does to people. I recently stopped seein someone i had fallen in love with. I still love him..ive known him for almost a year and eveywhere where i go, i am constantly reminded of him. He says he doesnt have that much feelings towards me as much as i do and that's why we stopped dating. Im still his friend and we still see each other around and talk but were " just friends". I hate it with all my heart. I want him back and its come to the point that i find myself not trusting guys anymore. i tried dating other guys, but i find myself imagining its him. what do i do? i want him back with all my heart, i need him. But it takes two doesnt it? what do i do?
2006-11-16 18:03:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've gotten really depressed and felt that way..
2006-11-16 18:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear what's going on there. I got out of a nine year relationship with a guy that at that time I didn't know wasn't even worth me. It's kinda hard to answer this one because I don't know your age but let me tell you I know it's hard to let go but once you do and pay attention to what others may say or things that he does and you may find that he wasn't for you in the first place. But let me tell you about this other guy I dated after that breakup.
He was fine and a quiet but strong type. I was wild about him. The sex was off the chain and he treated me like a lady at all times. But one day we were talking and he told me "your just not my type' I was crushed! But I kept on pushing and through other people and things that he said I was so glad that I didn't get into anything serious with him. I'll tell ya ...I still think of him but will not let him have that power or better yet take my power away from me. It's a big world out here babe gurl. Take your time let yourself heal from this one and take it slow with the next. I hope that was of help. Good Luck hun. Find something to occupy your time.Before you know it......he'll be forgotten. Then the one for you will be able to come in.
2006-11-16 18:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually this is not an answer 2 ur question...just a bit of my story, cos i think somehow it relates 2 urs....i was ain a very serious relationship...for 2 yrs ....then as i was leaving my home for higher studies....she said that she didint love me anymore and this reltionship cannot work..can u believe it? she said this on the day when....i was supposed 2 leave,.....its been 6 yrs and i still want her back in life..i have tried several times..but she refuses 2 talk 2 me...and the worst part is...that she didint even give me a reason or an explanation that y was she doing this....
during the first 6 months of our "BREAK-UP"..i really felt NUMB
2006-11-16 18:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man should not complete you; he should compliment you. Hence, you do not need this guy or any other.
Look, it sucks, but you need to move on. Seeing him all of the time is probably not helping. Go out with other friends, treat yourself to a massage, volunteer and meet some new people, etc. You are never going to move on as long as you allow yourself to be stuck in a rut.
2006-11-16 18:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jamir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Break-ups are bad. Unfortunately you should stop hanging around with him for awhile until you can get your feeling back. If you keep seeing him he's going to remind you of your pain. I went through it myself. It doesn't mean you have to stop being friends with him, just don't hang out so much.
2006-11-16 18:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive got the same problem rite now... hes been actin cold 2wards me and im confused.. however maybe everything was too calm for him.. i suggest that you take a break n try 2 move on, spend time with ur friends etc. And since uve treated him the best hes gna miss ur attention and he way u treated him, it might take a few months but mayb by dat time ull find sum1 else n hes gna b the one crying
2016-05-21 22:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. being a guy, i know it took a lot of braveness on his part to admit that he doesn't love you anymore. that's a really honest thing to do. maybe you should look at other things like your studies or favorite activities. dating other people will also take your mind off him and who knows? you might even find someone better..
don't stop loving. it feels good to find a new one to love after losing someone.
2006-11-16 18:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing him as a friend so that you can move on with your life. Yes it does take two.
2006-11-16 18:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im glad im not in your situation. bound to someone and constantly thinking about them. that would me sick, but in my opinion try n get back. Depending on the severity of why you broke up he probably feels the same way, you never know till u open your mouth.
2006-11-16 18:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by bboyballer112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes no sense,it's your own fault you won't accept it.Now learn to move on cause you lost that one.So you don't trust guys that tell the truth?What is this world coming to?
2006-11-16 18:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, i would cut contact with your ex, and start seeing new people, see the new people for who they are.! hey you mite find sumone you like more that your ex (i kinda have)
If your supposed to be together he'll be back...
2006-11-16 18:09:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋