For the past two years,i've been best friends with this girl.we always hang out and basicly do everything together. It was like we were never apart, and it wasn't me choice she would always want me to come over and hang out with her.So since i first became friends with her i have liked her and we got to know each other pretty well. So my best friend, guy side,lives right beside her. they would always sit up and talk and she would always tell me she didn't like him.But the other day i got enough courage to ask her out and she said she always though of me as a best friend.The day right after that,my two best friends start dateing and all my friends(and my best friend shes going out with)knew i liked her too.But now it just seems awkward to be around them.I wouldent care, but it's just my two best friends are together.So i took a week break from going out there,and She got pissed.So i went out there today and while they were cuddled she kept glancing at me.I still like her and this sucks.
2006-11-16 17:56:41 · 6 answers · asked by 11:11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another note is that i work with the my friend, the one she's going out with.
2006-11-16 18:28:04 · update #1
Oh man that must be pure hell. But if your guy bestfriend knew you liked her then he's not your friend for going out with her. And it sems to me she is just mind f_cking you dude !!!. take another break from them and if she gets pissed so what ?? SHe knew you liked her before she starting dating your friend. That means she just being a B!CTH to you man. stop hanging out with them. You'll be better off in the long run. If you dwell on this you're gonna become depressed and sh!t and you don't need that.
2006-11-16 18:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard as it may seem - go and get involved in some sort of hobby.. Salsa dancing is big down here in Sydney...
You need a new pool of friends and a new hobby is the best way to go about it.
Sounds like teenager stuff to me - everyone goes through it. Dont worry you will be fine.
2006-11-17 02:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by AndyLoops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw you poor guy, you sound so sweet! You think they would have told you or asked you before they started dating. Yes, it is their business, but considering you all are best friends, it does affect you and your feelings. I suggest still hanging out since you are best friends, but maybe removing yourself from the situation a little more and not hang out AS MUCH. Maybe go out and meet new people and maybe God has a special girl in mind for you to meet apart from your best friends. Good luck to you all and God bless!! :)
2006-11-17 02:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me... i can totally understand your feeling... because i am having the same thing too...
Guy's my best friend..
the gal's the one i like...
and they are together ...
Yeaa.. it suckss.. really sucks.. a lot....
but can't help it.
Other then wishing them happy... there's nothing i can do already..
and yuP! i m still talking to the guy friend.. but not talking anything about the girl.
That's just what i do only. nothing else.
2006-11-17 02:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ching y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** she shouldn't have gotten ticked w/ u. of COURSE you'd wanna NOT be w/ them for awhile. what kind of a friend is she that she wouldn't realize how hard this has gotta be on u. and your guy friend is a snake too...he had no right goin behind your back and askin her out. if he had to be w/ her then he should've come to u first and let u know what was goin on.
2006-11-17 02:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by meme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. Your like the third wheel. lol no offence but uhh hard **** lies on the road either go around or walk through it. lol
2006-11-17 02:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by bboyballer112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋