I just had my heart cruelly broken recently over a simple crush yet I've been devastated. I'm numb and dont feel anything when another guy likes me.. It's already been 3 weeks. Sometimes I just break out crying at home. I've been excercising a lot lately because it makes me feel better.. but the high wears off in a day and im back to being depressed. What's wrong with me?
2006-11-16 15:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing. you need to give it time. 3 weeks may seem like a long time, but you need more time. if things aren't better after 2 months-which is more than enough time, then you need to talk to a professional. also, try asking your friends or family and not random strangers from yahoo. take care!
2006-11-16 15:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by imgnrefrnd18@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Broken Hearted, I'm no Dr. Phil But I am older and can appreciate what you are going through. Welcome to life. The numbness never really goes away but we can still Live, Love and Breath. You are now grown up I hope! Now do something for yourself for a change. Put more time into your Family or Best friend. Your Mom Might be in need of your love, give yourself a break from the scene. Step Back, Rest your heart OK> Don't give up! And don't give in to easy, your young yet. Learn to live first OK>Good luck.
2006-11-16 23:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young. Nothing is wrong and it is normal to feel bad after your heart is broken. It is good that you turn to excercise, but also get out there again. Someone will catch your eye and things will brighten up. This is the norm unfortuately. You have to have your heart ripped in two a couple of times or so in your life, before you end up with that special someone. Yep, I just brightened your day to let you know it happens again and again. Hey, it is worth it.
2006-11-16 23:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Shiva07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still in "mourning", we've all been there- there is no set time frame as to when a person will "get over" someone else- though it usually happens when you meet someone that YOU are interested in (not them just being interested in you). Dont rush yourself- keep exercising if it makes you feel better and take a "holiday" from dating for awhile---it will help. When your heart is ready, you'll date again.
2006-11-16 23:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....
when my gf ditched me for another guy who freakin lives in another country, i decided stayed the hell away from ALL girls and didnt even think about anything for 1-2 months...
while we were still going out, i kinda forgot about my friends, and spent a lot of time with my gf (which i rlly regret right now..cuz she's a @#$@%#)...soo when i decided to stay away from all the gf stuff, i spent more time with my friends, and now, I feel like I dont need a gf anymore, cause i have my friends to talk to..
(but of course, it would be nice if i could get a gf)
2006-11-16 23:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by loser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really cared for your "crush" 3 weeks isn't a long time to get over him.
I think you should take your time between guys. Going from guy to guy to guy is really not good.
Maybe you should take a little break.
2006-11-16 23:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear rika, do you owne a pet? if not get a puppy animals always seem too cheer us up it may help too just take time too write down your fillings and work through them one at a time one day at a time ok. and remeber your only human and we will always have good and bad times in life but what don,t kill us will only make us stronger ok.
2006-11-16 23:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by hobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just missing what you thought you had....
everybody dreams a little in relationships..and it always hurts when they don't work out.
sounds like you got dumped--that burn takes awhile to get over--but keep an open mind and don't rush into anything...cuz love will find a way to you!
2006-11-16 23:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU, IT JUST TAKE TIME
TO GET OVER SOMEONE THAT YOU HAVE FEELING FOR.
BUT AS TIME GO BY THE PAIIN YOU FEEL WILL GO AWAY
AND THEN YOU WILL SEE THAT LIFE GOES ON. AND THAT
THE SUN WILL SHINE AGAIN. JUST HANG IN THERE. IT
WILL GET BETTER TRUST ME.
2006-11-16 23:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know....it wasnt' just a crush...it was way more than that...or you're feeling lonely...don't worry things will work out for you.
2006-11-16 23:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋