I guess evey person inthe worls faces the problem is that they are not sure if other person they like, do they have same kind of feelings? I face similar kind of problem. Here's a girl in my class she is ravishing stunningly beautiful During intial week of class we felt like connection and we started meeting each other for study sessions later on there will be times when she hit on me like in class she would look at me and when i turn she would look away, she would complement my attire even my haircut and other times she will be like she don't even know me Finally i decided to ask her out on official date she was busy for couple weeks so i thought she wasn't intrested but two weeks later she asked me if i wanted to do it. and unfortunately in that week i had to give my US bords and i couldn't make it during that time it was my b'day and i was expecting her to call but she didn't anyways class is about to end and i might never see her agian, should i say to her whatz in my heat or ....?
2006-11-16 15:28:57 · 24 answers · asked by akrsjs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
definitely tell her. You'll regret it if you don't
2006-11-16 15:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Adam B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should keep the communication open between you and stay persistent.
Women (regardless of age) like a guy with confidence. And though this may sound old-fashioned, I think that the majority of women like to be pursued. Get her number and/or her e-mail address so you can stay in touch. Since she's already shown a mutual interest in you, it's no longer a matter of "if"...just a matter of "when". You said that you might never see her again, so I'm not sure if you two live far apart. Assuming that this is someone who is geographically desirable, you just need to continue expressing your interest in the same friendly way you have been and make sure you stay connected. If things don't play out, at least you can say you gave it a shot instead of letting her slip away.
Good luck!
2006-11-16 15:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by PD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude U might've missed the boat. But I admire ur sticking to ur books which is what is more important. If she is too lame to see that ur interests r first to secure a future for ur self and any potential future partner then she missed the boat. I'd give it another try and this time I'd be honest and let her know exactly how I felt. If she feels the same way then that would be great wouldn't it be? But if she has any other plans go ur own way son ur soul mate still awaits.
2006-11-16 15:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just forget what had happened in the past. Girls are unpredictable. Talk to her very casually and convey your feelings in a very friendly way. Ask her about her future programmes and plan for studies.Give her flowers saying that flowers will remind her of the days in the school/college, and you. Invite her for tea/coffee to some restaurant, and be sure, call her friends also. Pay attention to her , make her feel special in the group.She will come to know about your feelings. Dont delay....be fast.
2006-11-24 01:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by manjira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dear, just check first yourself that whether you are in love or it is just a crush!It happens at this age and it is not a surprise if she is also feeling samething. But realise my dear first that life is more important than love at this point of time of your life. Decide your priorities and then go for it. Don't delay. Oppurtunities never knock the door twice.
I wish you all the best!
2006-11-16 17:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Nisha Dee Muskan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would tell her everything that you are thinking, but since she did suggest an alternate time, then I think you're okay suggesting another date, and come up with something that works for both of you. If it doesn't work then, I would just let it go. Best of luck!
2006-11-16 15:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just lust and not love at all.
Forget these things and concentrate on your studies.
When you are well settled in life, you can get married with the approval of your parents and the society.
Don't spoil any one's life. Fear God. Be sensible.
God save both of you from the pitfall of lust.
Kind regards,
SCRPatnaik.
2006-11-23 17:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by scr p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah definitely u can tell her that u like her but don't force or expect her to like u back. I feel it is better to say upfront to her rather than feeling bad later for not expressing ur feelings. good luck dude.
2006-11-16 16:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should let her know what is going on, and that you are interested and would like to find a time that is good for you both
2006-11-16 15:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by its_just_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately tell her, if that s the last time you may see her, sometimes love or likeness can also no coordinate, but if you let her know atleast you know that you took the leap, you may fal and she may deny you but that whats dating is all aboput, if your young, trust me when i say this i have regrets and not jumping to the opportunities, you only live once tell her
2006-11-16 15:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try again shes interested! life with its busy scheduals makes it hard to get together but keep trying
2006-11-16 15:34:49 · answer #11 · answered by dreson k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋