The only problem is that we dont go out, but I still want him to be my first and I dont really care if we go out. All I want to know is am I going to be addicted to it and fall in love with him???????
2006-11-16 15:25:39 · 30 answers · asked by Beverly M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I bet mine on it. You will be addicted. But you will make a very big mistake ( some call it sin), and will have to suffer the consequences.
2006-11-16 15:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by seeker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer from a Male. I am impressed with you for staying intact this long, that's smart OK. You are old enough to make that decision now but as far as becoming addicted to him who knows. But ask yourself how you feel about it because you might feel different after. Sex is a really tough thing to deal with the next day for some, so think about it! There are Billions of people out there,OK. Your a big girl now! Whatever you decide- make the right choice. Look at him-Really hard, With your brain not your whatever. Be Safe OK. I'm no religious Freak but may soon be.
2006-11-16 23:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with a boy who is not a serious boyfriend makes you a whore. Do you really want that to be the way you start having sex? You want him to be your first? The approach him and make him a serious, long term boyfriend. If and only if that happens, make that relationship sexual.
There are two types of women in the world....normal girls and psychotic losers. Who you have sex with and under what conditions is one of the most important determining factors as to which you will be. Normal girls only have sex with long term boyfriends who are good men who love them. Psychotic losers have sex with low quality men who couldn't care less about them or who mistreat them. Drugs, alcohol and depravity are usually involved. This leads to a life of degradation and pain. Look around. You can see it happening to other girls if you aren't clueless.
You should choose wisely what you do with your life. Because you will have to live with the consequences of what you do. Not just the specific ones but the type of person you become because of them.
2006-11-16 23:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you jsut want to throw away somthing SOOO important to just anyone. and someone you only like. and i prolly have no room to talk. BUT i learned my lesson and i wish i had waited till i loved the person. and you should to. and when you do find the right person your gonna wish you had waited. your virginity is somthing that should be really important to you. and nothing any of us say is gonna make you want to or not want to lose it. Use your heart and you'll make the right decision good luck babe<333
2006-11-16 23:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by FairChild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl grab a brain, you only get one kick at this and you have a happy ending all made up, How are you going to feel when he tells you sorry not interested after you are so addicted, You were born with a rain where did you loose it at the playground
2006-11-16 23:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No love and sex arent the same thing...this isnt a good idea losing your virginity now to someone you dont love. I did that but then I grew to love him and I got hurt... Take your time. Wait for love and engagement.
2006-11-16 23:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for marriage, I lost the love of my life and she was going through the same thing. We made the wrong choice and her family has made it impossible for us to be together right now as she is still living at home. Sex can and will destroy a relationship, if he is important to you then you should resist your urges until you decide if he is who you are going to spend the rest of your life with.
-NmD!
2006-11-16 23:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just make sure your ready because once you go there that's it. Its a plus woman for the most part fall hard for the first one, and also be careful that, don't give it up so quick then he is gone.
2006-11-16 23:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine to a guy that I wasn't with, knew I never would be with but had feelings for.
I'm telling it makes your feelings so much deeper. I've never regretted it as such, but I wouldn't have done it if I had've known what I was in for as far as hurt and feelings go.
2006-11-16 23:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how good it is take you're time you should be treated like a lady first so goring out does matter don't be cheap you're first time around make it special see once you give it up you never get it back so go out with a bang don't be no foul
2006-11-16 23:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋