Who is supposed to bring the condoms? Me or him?

Question

Me and the guy I'm fooling around with plan to hook up all the time but he NEVER brings condoms. He says that he doesn't wanna be presumptious by bringing them, but calls me selfish if I just want him to get me off since he didn't bring them. I'm pissed because even though I told him to buy some, he never did. In the past when we're at my house, I have a small stash but I told him that he needs to buy some and keep them with him.

Yet tonight, I wanted to hook up at a restaurant, and once again, he didn't have them. So who is supposed to bring them? Me or him?

I am on another form of birth control, I just don't wanna catch anything from him

I guess I'm a little old fashioned because I feel like he's the one with the penis, he should bring them. Maybe I'm a little bit of a brat in a way because I still want him to pleasure me even though he didn't bring condoms (maybe a form of punishment).

Thanks to all who answered. I guess it is both of our responsibility to supply condoms but if he's not gonna take an interest in his own health, I'm gonna take an interest in mine. And if he turns me down for going down on me again, he's FIRED!

Answer 1

If you think (the merest hint) that you will be having sex, then bring your own. What is the worst that could happen, you have too many condoms?! I use to bring my own because my health and safety was MY responsibility.

Answer 2

If you've made it known that you expect him to contribute, and he still won't; you have a decision to make. It sounds like he will never put out the money to bring them. You can either continue the way you are going, or get rid of him. If you show him that you mean business, he may get the picture. By always having supplied them in the past, he's going to continue to expect this.

Answer 3

Sounds like he is embarrassed to buy condoms- he could probably get them free at the health department- and you can get diseases w oral= but not pregnant= and if you have them= he may think= why should he have them=you have no qualms about what you want- maybe that is just too forward for him= ??? You sound like the leader here and I don't think you have to worry about him running around on you= unless he just likes to make babies- what ever you do be resposible and careful= D

Answer 4

Both people in the relationship is responsible to be condoms and other forms of protection. As an extra precaution, you should keep some condoms in your purse in case he forgets them again. Remember, no sex unless it is safe sex, good luck.

Answer 5

Yeah to you for not doing it W/O a condom!!!! Both, I think, If I don't want your "past skank germs" or "your rug rat", ME! But if he's not bringing them for you, then if he's hooking up with others, he's not bringing them for them either...He obviously don't care about his life, and I really wouldn't expect him to care about yours. I think I would let this one walk...If he REALLY WANTED YOU, he'd make sure he made that short trip to any convenience store in town...must not be that into you. cause guys will do just about ANYTHING for what they want. AND, it would be really hard for them to turn a piece of a** away under any circumstances.

Answer 6

if he is too cheap to buy condoms ask him what he thinks of child support for 18 years. that may get him on track if he continues get used to having to supply any and all his needs. He just doesn't sound like a keeper

Answer 7

You bring the protection since you don't want to get pregnant. Ask him for some money to help pay for them.

Answer 8

Both of you should. But you might want to bring some yourself just in case.

Answer 9

You have to do it. Guys can never be counted on to bring the protection. It's easier for you to use your stash.

Answer 10

well you should cuz obviously by now you should know he isn't going to otherwise tell him that until he can be a man and bring the condoms he can't get none.