There is this girl who i am "talking" to. we have been kinda seeing each other for about a a 2 months. 2 weeks ago she made a new guy friend and she started to spend alot of time with him. i happened to know that he likes her ALOT but she says they are just friends. he takes her shopping, buys her lunch dinner takes her for ice cream, and she has even walked away from me to hang with him at the high school football games. i decided that if she could have aguy friend like this, i could have the same type of friend, but a girl. well, rumors got back to my girl that i was cheating on her and seeing another girl. i never did anything with sharon (new girl) but alyssa (orgnl girl) is hesitating on believing me. she says that things cant go back to normal. the guy spends like all of his time with her, he goes to her house yet she still claims that they are just friends. i am not sur if i should move on or fight for my rights.
peace and love
jared
2006-11-16 15:08:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i am changing the deatains and adding more so that those who answered can ponder this and give me more answers. thanks fro the other ones too! when we have half days at school, it is alyssa's (original girl) and girl friends tradition to go eat at a certain restaurant. i was never able to go because it was supposed to be a girls time out and that is totalyl cool, but this new guy goes with them when we have half days. she goes with him to watch his siters water polo games even. i think that i need to find a more loyal girl. am i right?
2006-11-16 15:47:58 · update #1
Sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it.
Explain to her that it goe's both ways , if she can have a guy friend that she hangs out with all the time then why can't you also have a friend?
Another way is to just ask her point blank if she likes this new guy more than a friend ,tell her it also looks mighty suspicious to you that she spends all her time with him.
Tell her it upsets you that she spends all her time with this guy , and the only reason you went looking for another friend , is because SHE was the one that went off with someone else.
All you can do is lay it all out on the table , and discuss it honestly. Good luck with everything =)
2006-11-16 15:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Wishing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can stand an answer from an older person then here goes. If she is interested in another male person then ask yourself this. Do you exist in her world anymore? You really should know that guys and Dolls are not the same. If you are young then get on with your life if your over forty then get on with your life but stay friends. She may just be testing you or believe me no man ever really knows woman, and vice versa. Life is full of learning, just try not to get jealous, does the other like you and do you like her? Well then! Hello!
2006-11-16 15:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl doesn't sound worth fighting for if she's letting another guy take her out. Sorry, but it doesn't even sound like you have a relationship at all. If you want something exclusive, ask for it. I would try and raise your self-esteem a knotch or two and go and look for a better girl.
2006-11-16 15:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by RubyRemfear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends, how much do u like her? if you like her a lot and you are really serious, explain to her that u screwed up, you were trying to make her jealous and tell her how much it bothers you that she is hanging out w/ the other guy (not that she should stop hanging out with a friend for a boyfriend). hope this helps
2006-11-16 15:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋