My girlfriend is pregnant. How do I shake the ho for good, so she will leave me alone?

Question

I can't get her to stop threatening me if i don't help her out. But she trapped me, and I was just trying to get laid, I don't even like her that much.
how do I get out of this mess?

She doesn't want to get an abortion

Answer 1

Tell her you'll marry her if she gets an abortion, then dump her. And whatever you do don't sign the birth certificate. Deny, Deny And Deny some more! Make her want to dump you.

Answer 2

Buddy, she's no more a "ho" than you. In fact, in my opinion, you're worse. You're a deadbeat. You should have been honest to start off with & told her all you wanted was to be laid. You now must take the responsibility of becoming a parent. That not only includes monetary support, but spending quality time & teaching moral values to your child, something, that you didn't apparently learn as a child. That child deserves two loving parents, two parents who treat each other with respect. You & the mother will be the child's role models. How would you feel if your father left your mother when he impregnated her & said he didn't really like her he just wanted to get laid? I don't think it would make you feel very good. Think about it. It's time to grow up & be a man & take responsibility for your actions. And next time you want to get laid, use condoms and spermicide.
By the way, men like you truly disgust me, my boyfriend left me after 2 yrs of dating when I got pregnant, then denied paternity. Then he got another girl pregnant. He had 2 of us pregnant at the same time. Our children are 4 months apart & just graduated high school. I had to prove he was the father through DNA testing. My daughter has really had a difficult time dealing with the fact that she was denied the 1st three yrs of her life. You know what you're trying to do is a COWARDS way out.

Answer 3

Truth, reality. Your never gonna shake her now. She has your child now. You screwed yourself. Never trust someone else to ensure you dont conceive a child. Here is the basic bottom line. You have a choice. You can find a way to get some help in therapy so your not so mad at her for making you feel trapped. Seeing how in reality you are the only one who has a choice in everything you do and NO ONE can trap you or make you do anything you dont want to. So when you "get rid" of her remember that one day your kid will ask you why you and mom did not work out and you can look at your son or daughter and say " i never really liked the ho, she trapped me. I only want to get laid" Then watch as your childs life falls apart around you. I get the scared factor and not being ready and feeling betrayed, lied to and in essense trapped. However you do have choice and freedom. Not to mention an excuse to be the best of you. If you can find it within yourself you will save allot of money if you can learn to respect you as well as the mother of your unborn. Cus child support, half of daycare expenses and have you any clue what medical alone can cost you for insurance. Then their is the reality that you will have to pay for college ect... So perhaps you may want to look deeper and see if your just upset at you for this mess and that you just dont get why this happened in the first place. I am sure you are a really great person and better yet I am positive that you have it within you to be an awesome dad. I know it. No matter what choices you have made or this gal. You are responsible for your own life and the choices you make every day. You do not want her fine. Do not be with her if you cant do it. However do not do something that disrespects YOU. Calling her names may hurt her and make her angry yes. However the way you treat other people only speaks volumes about who you are and how much you respect you. Hope this works out I really do. Try to be nice to you okay. It sucks and it is okay to feel like it does. You are not trapped no matter what or how you feel. Remind yourself as much as you need to. It is okay. Nothing can trap me, I have free will it is up to me. My choices are mine.

Answer 4

You sound confused, you call her your "girlfriend" and then say you don't even like her that much you were just looking to get laid. You can't "get out of this mess", welcome to the real world, your need to get laid just bought you a speed pass to fatherhood. You don't have to like this girl, you don't even have to ever see her, but you are officially commited to that little "trap" for the next 18 years. Put your big boy boxers on and deal with it. The only thing you can do, place a restraining order on her if she is threatening you. Good Luck

Answer 5

Well, here goes. When the baby is born, have a DNA test to make sure the kid is yours. If the DNA test shows you're not then you're a free man.

However, if you are the father. Then you have a financial responsibility to help out with the kid. That's the least you can do.

If you a have a heart and know what is right, you will be part of your baby's life. You don't have to like the mother and do things with her but you do have an obligation to participate in your child's life. Look at it this way, how would you feel if you had no father, and if you do know what it is like then do the right thing and make a difference.

This is your test in life.....don't fail....

Answer 6

God...you put yourself in this mess! You got her pregnant! She has all the right to bug you! Thats so rude that you could even think for a second you can get that poor girl to leave you alone. When the baby comes it needs a dad, that would be you. When the baby comes it will need food and stuff you will have to pay for child support. It takes two people to make a baby...and if you were to have sex you should of liked her...and you dont really...you are so...ugh boy...your an ***

Answer 7

You need help. Professional Psychiatric help. People like you should be sterilized. Anyway do the right thing and pay support. If you don't WANT to be a father then you shouldn't be one. But you still have to pay. I can tell you that you should have worn a condom but you're past that.
if you decide not to pay and she takes you to court then when you get a job they will take the money you owe and the cost of court fees off your paycheque.
Well they do here anyway. So suck it up and be a man. You were man enough to whip it out then you can be man enough to pay for it.

Answer 8

Get it together, man. Sex is a reproductive act. Although there is no sign posted above our vaginas that says, caution - baby may result from sexual intercourse - you are from this planet, right? Be nice and cut the disrespect. Everybody grows up some day and today is your chance. The better you act as a father and boyfriend now, the prouder you will be of yourself in the future. BTW, you might want to add 'ney' to that 'ho', when you address your girlfriend. Honey sounds better than ho.

Answer 9

I'm only sorry for the Child.
I hope that she gets an abortion, cos you won't stick with her (otherwise you wouldn't ask this question) and she will not be a good mum, cos she shows already what a ***** she is.
How old are you? And she?
You know its bad as it is but she will abuse her child and blame it for the mess she made.
And you are also a part of it.
Never heard of condoms before?
It's hard to think that someone can "Trick" you into pregnancy!!!

Answer 10

what happened to all the sex education about birth control!! Yes, u r in a big mess. Morally, there is not much you can do. The baby is yours - you can't just shun her and YOUR BABY away. Be a friend to her, discuss as maturedly as possible as to what can be done, such as the kind of responsibility you will have to shoulder. The common and very popuar way the world over is of course just to disappear - and leave the poor girl to her fate. Will you choose that?

Answer 11

Wow, why would any girl want to trap someone like you? You don't sound like any prize to me. Next time you just want to get laid, book a reservation at the Rosy Palms Hotel.

As for getting out of it, you can't, unless of course your future son or daughter has an unfortunate accident or disease and doesn't live long enough to find out what a jerk their biological father is.