Well first I will start of by explaining the situation, before you go and give me random answers. So their is this guy I was seeing but now we arent, we just have casual get togethers like sexual wise. Anyway so I see him online sometimes and I want to say hi, but I feel like I will be bothering him by doing so, you think so? He says hi to me sometimes usually I will but not all the time like once in the blue moon..you think it would be annoying if I say hi usually?
2006-11-16 15:00:45 · 17 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesnt mind that I say hi I just think he might mind you know cuz maybe he might think im saying hi cuz I feel like doing it ....thats all
2006-11-16 15:11:28 · update #1
Honestly, please don't look down on me for telling you what you need to hear. It sounds to me like you pretended it was casual w/no strings attached, which is how he took it. Now, as MOST girls do, our feelings get involved, but his did NOT, as MOST guys don't. You can, I think, and should, say HI on line, he's not looking at it as anything serious, just some girl he hooked up wt and she's saying hey. Your reading more into it cause you have a little more there then just "a casual get together" Maybe you should tell him, hey it was fun but I sort of like you, you can tell by the response. I'm so sorry but he might have just used you, your gut knows, remember.."Advise is what you ask for when you know the answer, but want a different one." If he was into you he would pursue you and you'd know.
2006-11-16 15:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you let him come over and do you, but you're worried that it might bother him if you say "hi"? Are you a hooker? Why would you be ashamed to say hi to someone who you're having sex with?
If he doesn't want to be "bothered" by you online, then you shouldn't bother with him in the sack.
2006-11-16 23:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he thinks. I don't think he will totally avoid you if you say hi from time to time. I think you may have feelings for him or you may be afraid that you're going to scare him off. If you both know where your feelings stand then it shouldn't be a problem..
2006-11-16 23:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS THE LEAST HE COULD DO IS SAY SAY HI BACK COME ON YOUR HAVING SEX WITH HIM WHATS SO BAD ABOUT A HELLO!! I KNOW IF I WAS GIVING SOMEONE WHAT I HAD A WOULD EXPECT A WHOLE LOT MORE THEN HI.
2006-11-16 23:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi to him if u want to! Ure making way too big a deal out of this hun...
2006-11-16 23:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't think so. Try it and find out, if he has a problem with it tell him to let you know about it and you wont do it anymore. Heck you can have sex with him but you cant talk to him. He must be gooooooood! GL
2006-11-16 23:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are bonking his brains out and he can't even say hi...he is totally using you. Kick him over that blue moon
2006-11-16 23:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by SpearTheBeardedClam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the harm? If it's casual why worry about what he's thinking anyway?
2006-11-16 23:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by shannonscreativechaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have sex with him but you might bother him if you said hi?
I think you deserve better even if you don't.
2006-11-16 23:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi..
I don't see the harm in that
2006-11-16 23:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋