Im really into this guy and his girlfriend comes back from Iraq in 10 months. I know its a while from now, but he said he wouldnt lose touch with me and would rather stay with me over her because she has a son and he believes he should start his own family. I dont know what to do...just wanted to see what you all thought I should do.
2006-11-16 14:55:21 · 16 answers · asked by blondbeauty1987 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I completely agree with all of you, thats how I felt in the beginning. I have a cousin in the war right now. The thing that messed me up is she DOES know, and she wants him to be happy. Am I just a side thing until she comes home??
2006-11-18 17:11:55 · update #1
The guy has a girlfriend and it doesn't matter how far or how long she will be gone the fact is she exists. She's probably thinking he's being loyal to her and here he's with you. There's no right way to look at this situation. Haven't you ever heard of the word NO. I mean if he told you about her and you continued seeing him what does that say about you. Put yourself in her place. I mean she's in a terrible place with danger every minute and chances are thinking of her boyfriend gets her thru a lot of what she's going thru now. What your doing is just not right.
2006-11-16 15:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's bad... you she be ashamed of yourself and he should too! What are you guys thinking? How is this poor girl gonna feel when she comes back from Iraq( which she is there to HELP people like you) and find out her boyfriend was having a relationship with another woman? What now? She will find out sooner or later! That's just disgusting...i hate people like that. I think you shouldn't be seeing this guy, no matter how long his girlfriend will be away... How would you feel!? I'm just saying....stay away from him, don't put yourself in this kind of situation and if you avoid it...hey more power to ya but i think that is just so horrible... and if he is cheating now...he is bound to cheat again! You guys should be very very very very very very ashamed...just remember...she is fighting for you and everyone..shes a good person and apparently not with a good man
2006-11-16 15:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He already said that he would "keep in touch." Doesn't that tell you he is just using you until she comes home? Break it off now. It will be a lot harder in 10 months. Hope his girlfriend figures out what a creep she has. Shame on you!! You surely know better.
2006-11-16 15:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to try and be as gentle as i can on this one...because frankly...your question made me a little ill..
This woman is fighting over in Iraq. You are sleeping with her guy.
This woman has left her son behind, so that she can fight for OUR country YOUR country...in IRAQ.
And you are sleeping with her man.
Usually I would tell you what a wh0re you are...and that he is cheating pig..and you need to move on and let them sort it out...BUT in this case...
I think he should break it of with the girlfriend (WHO IS OVERSEAS...IN A WAR....AWAY FROM HER SON)....
And stay with you...until he finds his next fling...You are both immoral...and deserve one another...and his girlfriend deserves a real man.
THEN...YOU can come back to yahoo answers in a few weeks...months...whenever...and ask US why he's cheating on YOU...and what you should do about that!
2006-11-16 15:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Shakira 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have just a couple things to say about this......Every dog has their day.......What goes around comes around.....Everything happens for a reason......SO, when he is sleeping around on you, don't come back here crying wanting advice on how to make him come back to you, because you will deserve every bit of it. You and him both should feel as low as a snake in the grass. I hope someone has this WOMAN'S address and lets her know just how loving her boyfriend is.........with another GIRL.
2006-11-16 15:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that guys an a$$ hole!!!! does he write her?? or e-mail her?? i think thats funked on his part, an i think you should leave him cuz obviously he has a commitment problem!! but if you are ganna stay with him you should at least tell him to wait till she gets back! cuz sending a DEAR JOHN LETTER to someone in the war! she could very well die from the news! she needs to stay focused! and learning that her boyfriends cheating on her or leaving her for another women thats just f u c k e d up
2006-11-16 15:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is bad. If he is cheating now, he will cheat again, and for you to move in on someone else's man while she is out at war..that does not say a lot for you, so maybe in all reality you two deserve each other, good luck.
2006-11-16 15:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by hahaha 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well to start off hi, hope you don,t mind the honest truth ok. but i,m a man also and i know for a fact that if this guy will cheat on his woman while she is away then he will most certainly cheat on you also. so ask yourself this question do i need someone who honestly can,t be trusted. sugar life is way to short than to be waisted on lieing cheating, dogs that care for no one but them selves ok.
2006-11-16 15:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by hobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you knew he had a girlfriend, you should have just walked away from him. He is cheating on his girlfriend with you while is in Iraq don't think he will cheat on you to. He is a looser I think you just let him go.
2006-11-16 15:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, that is just not right. She is out there fighting the good fight and you are taking her man? Ask yourself how you would feel if you were in her shoes? If he decides to break up with her then that's a different story. I feel bad for her....
2006-11-16 15:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by elprez14 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋