Am I weird?15 yrs old I've never been kissed and I never had a boyfriend...?
Am I weird?I just don't feel the NEED like my friends to have a bf...plus I'm extremely shy...unfortunetly i keep lying to all my friends that i already had boyfriends and everything...Today this guy from the other grade asked me out and I just felt really awkard around him I already decided that i don't want to go out and whatever but i think I say no to guys because I'm scared they're going to make fun of me or tell everyone about it...plus I don't want to be crying around like my friends do every month because their bf dumped them or whatever...
2006-11-16 14:48:55 · 29 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to worry too much about it. What's the big deal. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Just take your time.
About this guy who asked you out....well, try it! Try not to see your first date as an exam! Just be yourself, go out with him to have fun, and let things come as they come without pushing it to prove you've grown up and can have a relationship. And if he dumps you, so what? There's plenty more fish in the sea...
So, go on! Take the plunge, and all my best wishes to you!
2006-11-16 15:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by I Drum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the way society is these days, better to be how you were brought up and raised compared to most other college students. I didn't go to like an all boy's high school or anything but my parents were very strict on dating and I was basically sheltered from a lot of high school dating. My first relationship didn't come until I was almost 18, so don't feel bad. You are probably highly selcetive to when it comes to finding the right person, and that is good. Better than just asking whatever person looks half decent like most college aged people do. So it may take some time to meet the right person, but when you find them it'll definitely have been worth the wait.
2016-03-28 23:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry a bit! 15...your still young! You don't have to get caught up in the whole boyfriend girlfriend scene just yet! If your only 15...live a little have fun and enjoy life! The fact that you don't want to be crying around your friends beacuse a guy dumped you...very Wise and hey more power to ya! So all in all, its not weird at all, those young people that have boyfriends and girlfriends really young... so annoying and they break up the next day so hey why do it!?
2006-11-16 14:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all....I was almost 18 before I had my first kiss. We are always in such a rush with that kind of stuff at that age. We see a lot of other girls dating already and it makes us wonder if there's something wrong with us. Have you ever noticed that the girls in high school with a boyfriend always seem to be fighting with him? Why start going through that earlier than necessary? It's ok not to be with a guy at that age. Once you experience it you'll be like, "ok...that was not such a big deal." Just enjoy being 15 and don't worry about trying to grow up so fast.
2006-11-16 15:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you so much. I don't have any girlfriends, I've never kissed or been kissed and I'm a boy that is 16 year old. Don't think you're an outcast, because you have bigger goals in life than just going out with someone. I know I have to focus in school right now and I'm doing it. Having a girlfriend is the last thing I need in my opinion. I hope this helps =).
2006-11-16 14:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Worry You are only 15 , Give your self time to grow up, Do not let any one tell you any thing different. You are not weird, you sound like you have your act together. Wait till the time is right for YOU. I waited till I was in my 30 before I found the right person , and started dating, and had my first kiss, And I was never thought to be weird, and I have now been happily Married over 20 years now. good luck. and let no one change your mind.
2006-11-17 14:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Littlebigdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not weird. But lying about it isn't going to help you any and it certainly won't make you look good. If anyone asks you if you've been involved, so what if the answer is no. I was the only one in my group that hadn't been with anyone and although they had their comments, I continued to say "So what?!" keeping that attitude and they all respected me for it.
How do you know they're not lying? Be proud of the decisions you're making. If your not ready, your not ready. So what?!! It doesn't mean anything.
2006-11-16 14:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird at all- you have all the time in the world to start dating. I know what you mean about being scared to date that first person, I was like that too. But when you meet a nice guy- you will know that you want to take that risk. It helps if you are friends first too. Good luck!
2006-11-16 14:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lola76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not weird. Just don't get down on yourself for it. That will lower your self-esteem. Just wait until you think it's right and you've met the right person. No one knows you better than yourself. Don't give into peer pressure, it does nothing but ruin people. Just be independent if that's what you choose. Just don't worry about it. You have your whole life ahead of you to date/or get married. Just relax, you're only 15 like you said.
2006-11-16 14:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Cameron 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not weird. I felt the same way for a long time unitl i acutally got a BF and then once you have one you won't feel the same way. But get a bf when you think you are ready and not because everyone else has one.
2006-11-16 14:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋