okay i just met this boy over the phone last weekend and we talked for like two days (i have not got his house number from his cousin yet but im on it) and well i guess we go to gether and when i was talkin to himhe said he wants to do it with me (if you know what it means i am a virgin) and i asked did he exspect me to give it up the first day i meet him and he said na...when ur ready.. is this a good guy for me? and b4 we hung up the first day we went together he said bye hunny bunn and i did not know what to say (any tips on what i can say nxt time?) all i said was okay bye, i felt so embaresed) but is he a good guy for me?? i mean like would he be someone you want to be with if you liked the bad boy type, a little freaky, funny, fun to be with(even though we never met face 2 face) and willing to wait for me when i am ready.... he seems to fit all of this iam12 going on13 and so yall lil girls know this one is mine ( lol just kidding, but 4rel dont mess wit any of mine)
2006-11-16 14:46:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
This boy (& many more) will say & do anything in order to have the chance to "do it" with you. This is an important lesson for many girls to discover. I know how flattered you feel, but please don't give in to these feelings. You need to respect your body & your self because he sure doesn't.
2006-11-17 00:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Remain a virgin as long as you can. You've only talked to this guy for 2 days and never even met him and he's trying get you to give up something you can't ever get back. Please think about this, he doesn't even know you, so how many other girls do you think he says this stuff to? I would stay away from him. Bad boy types usually just want girls for sex, even if they have a main girl they most likely still have others on the side. Wait for that person you really know and love for your first time, it could save you a lot of heartache.
2006-11-16 15:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ray 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound like a mother am 23 close to your age..... Your 12 you have all your life to do that (college has lots of cute and smart guys) ....... Get an education believe me all the guys will be dropping at your feet if you have an education.... Believe me I've lived it go and pick out a college, a career look in to Engineering Law you sound very articulate, you have your whole life to have boyfriends if that is what he wants first then he does not really want you. Volunteer and do something to make a difference.... I know you can.......
2006-11-17 14:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nuclear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i thought this is for skin/body, but it is ok. Girl don't do it! You are young, why are you in hurry to lose your "V"? First of all when you first met a guy you don't talk about having sex. WOW the time has change. when i was 13 i was busy with homework and other school activets but i guess now days you teenagers have too much time on your hand. My advice will be don't do it, wait untill you turn 18 because then you will know more about sex.
2006-11-16 20:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lady-bug 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This guy is probably lying. He won't "wait" for you if he says that he wants to do it with you and you've only talked for two days and seen each other, what, 1 day? Set your priorities and find a good guy. A lot of girls are attracted to "Bad Boys" and I'll admit that I was at that age, but take it from me, they aren't worth it. He'll get what he wants and then leave, or find something better. Find you a good guy that's not interested in sex, or, wait. You're young. Don't concentrate on having a boyfriend right now, have fun and find out who you are before you do anything else.
2006-11-16 15:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girl he's only after one thing for him to bring it up the first time that the two of you talk should be your first clue.He's feeding you a story and telling you what you want to hear.I don't think that he's the guy for you.He's going to sweet talk his way to you and once he gets what he wants from you he's going to break your heart.Don't give it to just anyone.You're really young and have all the time in the world to do that.Just have fun as a kid.Don't rush nothing.Remember rushing will only lead to heart break and un wanted pregnancies.Be careful and keep your head up!
2006-11-17 03:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a boy says he wants to do it with you before you even meet, this cannot be the start of anything good
2006-11-16 15:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by xtremedan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is with kids these days....he probably just doesn't care about you and wants to screw your life. don't let him do that. it will tbe the biggest mistake of your life (unless you did something even bigger)
2006-11-17 11:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's trying to push you farther than you want to go, he is probably someone you should stay away from.
2006-11-17 11:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by techtor765 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be thinking about whether you should do it with someone you barely know..........WAIT!!
2006-11-16 15:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by cheryllynne2004 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋