I have an ex who wanted to sleep with me but I wasn't emotionally ready at the time. Now, sex is all I think about. He has a new gf so I can't sleep with him... Guys think I'm very innocent. I went on a date with a guy. He hasn't even responded in over a week. I know he's not into me but I really want to sleep with a guy I know is clean. I won't sleep with any guy I meet in a club. What should I do if I want to sleep with this guy but not seem slutty. What should I text him? I want him or another guy to know its a one time thing
Any hot clean (no aids or std boys) is what I want
Thanks everyone.
2006-11-16 14:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a rl8nship would be ok too
2006-11-16 14:49:54 · update #1
they are all going to say they are clean if they think there is any chance of having sex.
Get to know someone really, really well before you sleep with them and both of you get tested for everything before you have sex. That way you have some assurance. Nothing is for sure, though.
2006-11-16 14:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I can understand that you want to have sex and that you want it to be with someone clean but doing it as a one-time thing just to do it is not a good idea. There are plenty of guys that would jump over themselves to help you out, but in the end you will only feel slutty and he will also see you that way, there's no way around it. I would suggest that you wait until you are in a relationship with someone so that it's special. My first time was in the back of a car and I regret that to this day. You will always remember it. If it's something that you HAVE to do and you don't have any 'friends with batteries' then at least find a good guy friend that wants to do it with you and keep it to yourselves - like an experiment. Good luck!
2006-11-16 22:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Seems you wanna have sex with anyone just for the experience....and I suppose its fine
2. Guy from a club? Most guys go to the clubs....if you go to a club does that make you less interesting for sexual encounters? A girl from a club...yuck?
3. Both of you get tested....everyone wants to F and everyone wants clean...and clean is rare these days...and by the way some STD's can not be detected
What if the dude in the dance club was clean and the guy from the church gives you a nice "present"? Try not to generalize people.
2006-11-16 22:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that you are emotionally ready now? Doesn't sound like it to me. You only get one first time and you shouldn't waste it on some random guy. Relax until you find yourself the right guy who'll respect you and is worth it and then give yourself to him. To take the edge off in the meantime, get yourself a toy i.e. a bullet or vibrator.
2006-11-16 22:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? You don't get around just looking for people to pork...sex is best with someone you love, not someone you're asking "what's your name again?" If you do this you will be a slut, may as well change your name to Paris. Wait for someone who's worth it and in the meantime MASTURBATE
2006-11-16 22:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by SpearTheBeardedClam 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. We all want to have sex! However, you sound way too young to even think about this!
Enjoy your childhood! You are far too young to be seeking sex!
This is ..
Just MHO,
Blessed Be,
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2006-11-16 22:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off are you a sl*ut? you sound like one! maybe you cant get anyone to sleep with you because they are too afraid to catch what you have! best thing to do is go find a stupid dog. maybe it will sleep with you as you have so much in common.
2006-11-16 22:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait.
2006-11-16 22:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of homeless guys, give one a home and a little lovin'...duh
2006-11-16 22:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't advertise thats dumb why not let it happen think you want it too much
2006-11-16 22:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋