......I feel like we are growing apart,he doesnt pay attention to me anymore. We have 2 sons together.
2006-11-16 14:40:41 · 3 answers · asked by LAKIA G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Considering that you have 2 children with this man you should talk with him about your feelings and clarify to him how you feel really neglected and therefore lonely and you need attention,companionship. If he responds then perhaps the relationship can be actively improved but effective communication is important and relationship ounseling could be a option. If you two have really grown too far apart then perhaps time to discuss going your separate ways BUT in this scenaio the 2 children need to be onsidered for these kind of breakups are very difficult on children esp if the male simply disappears. Discuss and work out Support from him fo the children for he is legally respopnsible-no need to be married for is the biological father with moral and legal responsiblities. and also how he will still be in their young lives. Perhaps knowing that life will change drastically for his two sons will have attempt to make the relationship work. Whichever this relationship goes in the near future I wish you and your children a happy life.
2006-11-16 14:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have two sons with this man how do you find the time to show him how you feel. Maybe he should be asking you the same question.Why should he pay attention to you when you don't pay attention to him.All your attention is on your kids . Please take a good long look at your relationship and see what the problem really is.
2006-11-16 15:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that question do you still love him even doe you are growing apart why haven't you'll sat down and talked about your relationship before it got to this point ask him how do he feel it could be something bothering him good luck
2006-11-16 14:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋