my ex has been hastling me and my girlfriend because i broke up with her because all she would do during the summer was ignore me never go anywhere or doing anything with me and then towards the end of the summer brag to her friends how great it is to be single even though we never broke up
do does she really have a right to now all of a sudden fall back in love with me and try to break me and my girlfriend up?
2006-11-16 14:13:00 · 78 answers · asked by Matt Koz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No she has no rights what so ever. She sounds like a spoiled little baby who wants what she can't have. Then when she does get it she don't want it any more. Just ignore her and maybe with a little luck she will go away.
2006-11-16 14:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has a right to her feelings BUT does Not have the right to impose them on you or hassle you and your new girlfriend. She acted badly towards you and maybe now regrets it but is not showing still any signs of maturity . If she has regrets then she could in a mature way let you know but you would still have the right to make your own decision of who you want to be with.My thinking is that she closed the door with you and needs to move on. Perhaps this is a life lesson for her about how one should treat others. Wish you a happy life and fun with your new girlfriend
2006-11-16 14:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave up her right to you when she started playing single again. And you don't fall back in love, you either were or were not in love. Don't let her and her little games cause you to hurt someone who has put trust in you as far as commiting to a relationship. Hopefully you honestly wanted to start a relationship with your new girl and are not using her as a rebound or to make your ex jealous. Girls like your ex deserve nothing better than to be kicked back to the curb, in the gutter where apparently she came from. Maybe she'll learn to treat people a little better if she gets a taste of what it's like to be treated the way she treats people.
Good Luck, S.
2006-11-16 14:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was very cruel of her to do. If your happy with the person you are with now then please don't let anything get in the way of that. Seems like she likes to play games and only abides by her own rules. How do you know if shes learned a lesson? How do you know what she did to you was wrong in the first place? If it doesn't work out with your current relationship, then there is other fish in the sea...no one deserves to put up with mind games.
2006-11-16 14:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by EchosOfAngels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she doesn't have the right to interfere with your new relationships but alot of times people don't want you until they know someone else does. It's kind of like the saying you never miss what you you have until it's gone. Ignore her and make the best of what you and your new girlfriend have.
2006-11-16 14:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Love isn't something you just fall in and out of. Sounds like you need to put a stop to it, and tell her how it is, and to go on with her life. She can only break you and your girlfriend up if you both let her.
2006-11-16 14:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by CHEROKEE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not right what she's doing to you and your girlfriend now. She sounds like she didn't want you until you got someone else. I've seen this before. ;o) Maybe if you just told her if she doesn't stop harassing you guys your going to call the police. Doesn't matter if you intend to do it or not but maybe she'll back off. good luck to you ;o)
2006-11-16 14:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's neither right or wrong.
However, it is a reliable sign that a woman is a psychotic loser instead of a normal girl.
When you love her, she doesn't want you. But, the moment you are moving on, she desperately wants you back. If you foolishly go back to her, she will quickly lose interest in you again.
2006-11-16 14:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex needs to get a clue if she really cared she would of showed you when you were dating. It sounds like she wants to be the center of your world and is jealous because she's not. I would tell her if I were you that she had her chance and blew it now you found someone who you want to get to know.
2006-11-16 14:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason she is doing it is because she is a jelous B****. And if she is alone then you will be alone. Get use to it alot of girls pull this kind of crap. Just ignore her and go on showing this other girl what you can do.
2006-11-16 14:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋