It is also from lack of exercise and extracurricular activities. I am in the process of interviewing for jobs and checking out training programs. My fiance has said that he has notoced my anxiety and empty mood. He said that it is almost like I am waiting for something. I just burst into tears when he told me that. I don't know why, but I am really worried that he will not want to marry me because of this side of me he is seeing right now. This is probably the worst side of me right now. I haven't been in the best of moods and not feeling like myself at all. I know that my fiance doesn't like my attitute lately which scares me because the last thing I need is to lose him during this time. Does this fear mean that I am not an independant person? I hate feeling like I need him right now more than in the past. I just don't like to think that he thinks less of me because of my situation. That really breaks my heart.
2006-11-16 13:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by lc 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
when my dad got layed off my mom took it real hard. there was two of us in college and a third just married. She became so sad. My dad was sad. Then my mom worked a second job. she enjoyed both jobs and still does the second one part time.
ok, I thought that there would be trouble, but it made them stronger and closer. I think that in a way that it was a test to see what would happen..\
I think that in a time of stress it shows a couples inter-twinded life and that draws them closer so that ones problem because the others and they both work to getherer.
If he is seeing the worse side of you, he is lucky. He is standing beside you and helping you. Reach out for his support, next time he will be in need of support. that is part of being a couple.
Worse things that happen in a life on a stress scale, I looked them up two years ago when my dad had problems.
1or 2
loss of job
death of a spouse
3 or 4
loss of close family
moving
5 or 6
a baby
hospitalization
I hope this helps, you are independant, but that does not mean that a sometime you need alittle support. Ask him how he feels. there is so much down sizing in companies that there is no such thing as a loyal life long employee. You will get a new job, just smile with him and let him help you smile.
2006-11-16 14:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to find the right new job and 2 months is really not that long (I understand the average time if 6 months of looking). As for lack of exercise, go for walks, runs, wash walls, do floor exercises, garden; just get moving.
2006-11-16 13:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie don't fool yourself you need him, remember you have no job. Get a part-time position somewhere...anywhere to get you out of the house and to give you some pocket money. It will also allow you to apply and interview for jobs.
2006-11-16 13:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by bobbalou27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good blog, a beginner’s guide to abnormal psychology.
Short, clear and simple; and you can even post your question and contact the author regarding particular subject you are interested in
http://sensitive-psychoworld.blogspot.com/
2006-11-17 06:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying focus on now. pray to get better. get out and walk. try monsters.com and try faith. with faith you never go wrong.
2006-11-16 14:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋