screaming,jumping,running ect.
2006-11-16 12:57:17 · 10 answers · asked by sandra b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I DONT KNOW IF YOU LL FIND THE RIGHTANSWER 4 THIS QUESTION OR NOT. THATS THE WHOLE POINT OF BEING A TODDLER, IS RUNNING, SCREAMING, JUMPING, THAT ALL APART OF THE YODDLER STAGE. TRUST ME I HAVE 2 TEENAGERS, 14 AND 13 AND MY BABY WHOSE 10 AND HALF MONTHS. I LET MY LITTLE ONE SCRAM OR WHATEVER SHE WANTS TILL SHE WEARS HERSELF OUT, AND I ALSO PLAY THE RADIO 4 HER CAUSE SHE LOVES MUSIC LIKE HER DADDY.
2006-11-16 13:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound overwhelmed. If possible call your closest friend/relative, say you're overwhelmed and see if they can look after your daughter for a short while. If you are truly overwhelmed and no one can look after your daughter for you, make sure she is in a safe place, lock the door if you have to to keep her there, stay within earshot. In the short term you do not need to control her. In the short term you just need to make sure she is safe. Sometimes that means walking away and leaving her to scream. Screaming may be the sign of some problem, but it also means the child has lots of energy and healthy lungs. There is no problem that cannot be solved tomorrow.
Next, focus on creating peace of mind within yourself regardless of what sort of noise is going on. Different things work for different people, and this is something to learn over time. Try deep breathing and some of those new agey tapes or ocean sounds.
I'm going to go ahead and post this and follow up with another post.
2006-11-16 21:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Millie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having this same issue with my 3rd child who is 26 months old (just over 2 years).
I have been making her use a strollar when we are out (no running, goes in as soon as she is out of the car).
At home I have been only letting her be in the same room as me. Ushually the livingroom.
If she throws something on the floor like trash I ask her to put it in the trash can. If she doesn't I take her hand, place it on the trash, have her grab it (even if I have to motion her hand to do it) then make her walk to the trash can and put it in. I do this with toys and other things also.
If I ask her to come here and she doesn't then I go get her and bring her to where I am.
IF she climbs on things I take her down from them.. over and over and over until she stays down.
I have to keep on top of her at all times.
I am noticing naps really do HELP. She is not tired and cranky.
Good Luck
2006-11-16 21:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on having a healthy baby! You can work all that energy out by enrolling her in Toddler Areboics, going to the park, if you have a big basement you can buy like a toddler jungly gym and stuff.
2006-11-16 23:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think it's a normal part of growing up. It may help you to punish her consistently. One of the biggest probloems parents make (so I read) is inconsistencies in what they will allow their child to get away with.
If you don't want her jumping on the couch, consistently punish her for doing it. Don't ignore it sometimes (let her get away with it) and punish her others, this will only give mixed signals and let her know she can get away with things.
2006-11-16 20:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old she is and how you see things, my daughter is 2 and i make her set in the corner, and if she touches something that she knows not to then I make her set on her hands but something you have to remember is a child attention span is not very big so keep reminding them what that did so they don't forget and get in trouble again
2006-11-17 01:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by nikki_75426 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she understands that there are consequences for her behavior.
Different children respond to different things (i.e. "Naughty Chair", time outs, spankings, etc).
Have you ever watched Nanny 911? Good show, check it out!
Most importantly, always follow through and never lead her to believe that she is in charge.
2006-11-16 21:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by ezza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's only one word that can help you
Attention
When kids run , cry , make noise, scream etc ...it is a way of call the attention
give them lot's of hugs and kisses and laugh with them ..you will see the difference
2006-11-16 21:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Yami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set some limits already.
2006-11-16 20:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that saying - "What you do as a kid will come back to you three fold when you have kids?"
2006-11-16 21:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋