how to build up confidence to ask a girl out?

Answer 1

plzzz just ask the girl out....girls hate when guys wait and wait....just go up to her and say "heyyy....wanna go out?".....she'll prob. say yess....just take the chance...ur life wont be over and u'll nver kno if u nver ask

Answer 2

Right her a note. I am an adult and when I find certain things are hard to say or hard for me to express or I don't know if I will be able to handle the reaction whether it be good or bad I write a nice note to get my point across. Trust me it's much easier to hand someone a note and ask them to read it after you have left then to deal with it right then. Also in the letter I express why I wrote it instead of saying it, and I also express that I want to talk about it face to face it's just putting it out there is the hardest part. Once it out there then you can go from there. Put everything you want to say in the note everything then leave some kind of contact information whether it's at lunch, on the phone, through a cell phone,through email or face to face where you guys can talk about her feelings on the note personally. Good luck.

Answer 3

just ask her if she was flirty she could think you're cute cuz i know when i flirt i only do it with guys i think are cute or nice or guys i'm really close with. just ask her. we love it when guys ask us out. come on. the worst she could say? its not like she's gonna be a total ***** if she says no. she'll politely explain why. I think you have a pretty good chance you sound sweet. Flirt with her a little and then ask her Good Luck p.s if you dont u'll always wonder what would've happened....

Answer 4

try not to think about it to much. just wait for the right time when you are together, NOT OVER IM OR EMAIL!, and ask her out. suppose you tell a funny joke and she is laughing, just say hey would you want to go otu wiht me on saturday? if she says yes great job. if she says no it has nothing to do with you being a bad person, she just thinks of you as a great friend. if she does say no which i doubt she will just go on as if nothing happened and everything will be fine. but if you think about it, you get to nervous to do. just wait until you KNOW its the right moment and just say it! good luck
-Colin

Answer 5

Don't hesitate! Girls hate that!
Just be confident. It may help to become friends with her 1st.
Write a note. Girls love to have something to read, and re-read.
Say:
Hey____
Do you like me? :-) (include smile face)
Circle one:
yes no maybe need more time 2 think

-____


she should give it back to you. if she circles yes, say "well in that case, will you be my girlfriend?"
and if she says no, move on
and if she says need more time to think, than keep trying
Best Wishes!! ;-)

Answer 6

don't think about it so much,just go ahead and ask ,confidence building in itself .

Answer 7

make her friends like you try to have as much as possible going for you so you don't get dumped on your ***. i waited and the girl i liked ended up asking me out

Answer 8

Thats kind of impossible, just dont think about it all day and when she shows up just do it, it would be like 2 seconds of fear

Answer 9

Just go for it ask her out !! All ya got to do is do it right !!! The most she can do is say NO !!

Answer 10

try to find out if she likes you. but work on it. mabey in a mirror ( yes a mirror, you can see how you look dont look nervous).