i am lonley bc i just broke up with my bf and need help cheering up any suggestions??? we were dating for 6 years and i caught him cheating on me with my BEST and CLOSEST friend to me in MY bed
2006-11-16 12:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by Jamie f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that suck i am so sorry. here my email address keep in touch with me and i promise i will cheer you up!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2006-11-16 12:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, there is nothing I can say. I went through a really bad break up which became almost liberating because I knew that nothing could hurt me more. It sounds like your situation is pretty much the same in terms of pain. What I did at the age of 26 is I went through a teenage rebellion, I dressed way too young, I was rude, I got a huge tattoo on my back. It was awesome but I am glad it is over. What I recommend is a kick *** vacation, I don't care if you can't afford it! Max out a credit card, dip into savings do anything, you NEED a vacation!
2006-11-16 12:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The both of them put together, cannot have what the both of you had for 6 years.
Once they get over their fling in bed, they will eventually come to disrespect each other, over the fact they did not have any morals.
That imagine of them will surface in your thoughts from time to time. And you will feel as if you have done something wrong to deserve this.
Keep this is mind, by telling yourself, that you did nothing to deserve this and that these two idiots were meant to find each other, to fullfill a future outcome that will have them at each other's throats.
If they did not think enough of you, not to do this, then trust me, they won't think enough of each other, once the lust goes out the door.
Huggggggggs...from all of us here. I think everyone feels for you right now.
2006-11-16 12:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that. That's certainly a double whammy for you. You need to stay strong and get out of the house. Hang out with some friends, put all your concentration/energy into your work. Seek support from your family. It'll take time, but it heals all wounds. Things always work out in the end.
2006-11-16 12:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Angelheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did all you needed to do you stayed with him for 6 years and tell your best friend that screwed you over and let her take care of him and tell him that he shouldn't be crying cause he thought all about this with his wrong head and guess what it isn't a dream tell him good luck. Do not talk to him anymore and let him know that you are going to move on with your life and there is someone near you.
2006-11-16 12:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks! Be happy you caught him, and you didn't give up any more of your affection and time. Now take care of YOU :-) Do whatever you're into....painting, writing, crafts, reading, sports, whatever hobbies you like. If you don't have one get one! Hang out with good friends you can TRUST and that are HONEST with you. I know it may not FEEL like it now, but you are SO much better off you found out about this!
2006-11-16 12:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UUUUUhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! I'm sorry. You know, there are alot better people out there, better than those two, now, stop thinking about it, the more you think about it, the harder is gonna be. So try to keep your mind busy, find something to do. Read, exercise, go out, watch tv, anything that can keep you busy, so you won't be thinking about it. Soon that will just be a bad experience.
2006-11-16 12:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you think about the good times that you had or do something to get your mind off of him. Talk to your parents and friends about it and they can cheer you up a lot. Email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
2006-11-16 12:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could fill your time plotting a way to revenge on the both of them. No one would blame you, maybe a way to give the both of em a uncureable std. No easy answer, turning to ur best friend in your time of need is out. I firmly believe that they will get theirs, wait they already have they both ended up with a piece of $#@*&
2006-11-16 12:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgaddddddddddddddd!!!im sooo sryyyy.....idk what to say i kno what is like to lose a bestfriend but not the way u did!! well i think u should kill them both!lol jp idk juss wait time will heal ur pain n karma comes back around so dun worry about them juss focus on urself n what u need to do...n things happen for a reason ..god knows what he is doing..so just wait ..theyll come back to u n ull have the chance to push them away. hope u do the right thing n not sumttin stupid ull regret. good luck
2006-11-16 12:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you lucky you caught him, before you wasted any more time with him? I know how it feels, but trust me, you will be better off, you can move on with your life,, just bad it was a best friend(u thought) Good luck.
2006-11-16 12:20:46 · answer #11 · answered by avery 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋