I'm turning 20 in a few months and the guy I like is probably in his mid 30s. Is the age gap too weird?

Answer 1

I had the same situation when I was 20. He blamed any problem we had on the age gap. Had I been going out w/ someone that was less toxic (ie drug addict, alcoholic) I think it would have been cool.

Answer 2

Love is blind and mutually felt true love will prevail over everything.

That being said let me point out the problems. If you were 35 and he was 51 (same as 19 to 35) It wouldn't be as hard since you would have both knocked around the world or been knocked around by it, for awhile and experienced a fair bit of life. Right now you are in such different places, you can't imagine. Your ready to head off to college and start meeting people as an adult. New jobs, Spring Break, travel, boys .... the list goes on. He, on the other hand has probably already done all of that and is ready to move on to kids, a home, settling in while your branching out.
He will, without meaning to or realizing it, stand in your way as you try to experience the very rights of passage that will help define who you are.
So again, not impossible or weird, but it makes me sad to think of what you will be passing up and I hope you won't feel that way also in 16 years.
Enter a relationship with eyes wide open, then close them.
Best of luck to you both.

Answer 3

Love is blind and at the same time felt authentic love will succeed over each and everything. That being suggested enable me communicate about the topic matters. in case you've been 35 and he replaced into fifty one (same as 19 to 35) It does not be as problematic because you would have both knocked global huge or been knocked round through it, for awhile and experienced an excellent little bit of life. in the present day you're in such diverse places, you may't imagine. Your waiting to go off to school and commence assembly human beings as an adult. New jobs, Spring damage, go back and forth, boys .... the record is going on. He, on the different hand has probable already performed all of that and is able to bypass on to youthful children, a house, settling in even as your branching out. he will, without which means to or determining it, stand on your way as you try to journey the very rights of passage that could also help outline who you're. So back, not not plausible or extraordinary, even though it makes me unhappy to imagine of what you'd be passing up and that i wish you gained't experience that way also in 16 years. enter a relationship with eyes huge open, then close them. best of tremendous fortune to you both.

Answer 4

It's not bout the age gap but weter both of u like each other dat much n weter both of u can get along well...

Answer 5

My wife is 25 and i am 31. The age dif was alittle weird but your only as old as you feel. She acts more mature then her age. Who cares what others say, as long as your happy!!

Answer 6

Not wierd, but off kilter and very hard to maintain. Dangerous in too many ways to pursue, but look at what you like in him. Once you are aware of those qualities, start looking for them in someone closer to your life experience.

Answer 7

if your mature enough to know what and how you feel and its serious to you then,No the age gap is not weird.im 23 and b\f 30.And things are going good.

Answer 8

not really because my sister is 25 yearsand her boyfriend is 48 years old and they are very much in love age its just a number

Answer 9

Nah if its right it wont matter about the age different

Answer 10

nope i dated a girl in feb,. who was only 23 i am 36