Recently I was told by my girlfriend that she had been faking some orgasms. The truth is, so had I. Regardless, I think a key factor to her and I not enjoying sex is that we're always at my house and I have siblings and parents there constantly. It's hard to have sex and enjoy it when you're paranoid and can't make much noise. But, could anyone give me some tips on how to please my girlfriend and make her reach orgasm easier. I want to please her and make her happy. I know I've given her some orgasms, but I want to do it constantly. I want to give her pleasure that she'll never forget. Please help. This would help if primarily women answered this question. Most guys are arrogant and don't know what the hell they're talking about. Thanks.
2006-11-16 11:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by Cameron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohhhhhhh, well it is hard when others are around and u can't make much noise. That could be a key factor. Maybe try some new positions, change it up. Lots of foreplay is also what most girls are looking for.
2006-11-16 12:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that since there is a feeling of maybe getting caught or being to loud. maybe at your parents house isnt the best place to be having sex. Take her somewhere you two can be all alone and before you have sex with her try more foreplay. proven fact men reach their peak way before girls . try something new maybe a new position that focuses on her and letting her be in control of your thrusting. maybe she needs alittle more help then just having sex, some women need more then just a man sticking his penis inside her. show her a great time maybe try taking a shower together and washing each others bodies that will help turn her on. You made a comment--most guys are arrogant although this may be true for some men alot of men just dont really understand sex and the way to make their girl feel sexy. The other thing is and no matter how bad you both want to dont fake---sometimes it just dosent happen. the love and feelings have to be there and sometimes you got it sometimes you dont. just remember the bond that you are sharing at that moment and in the same sense you wanna please your girl but make sure that you are not putting your sexual needs aside either otherwise you will never truly enjoy what your having. anyone can get off but it takes love to make love.
good luck HAVE FUN!!!!
2006-11-16 20:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. girls wont ALWAYS have HUGE orgasms.
2. ask her what feels good. do different things and ask her if she likes it, and find out what she likes most!
3. try to find a date when the members of the house arent all there at the same time. it might help ease the mood.
2006-11-16 19:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by iamjessx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say in my case if u kno what she likes tell her shes cute and do her hard and play with her and finger her and get her cumming.... ect.. You cant improve it for some girls its harder to get going than others I kno this cuz im easy but like if u go to gurl.com you will get way better answers then on here... and at gurl.com its guys too lol and go to thr top right and there is shout out boards u will find out alot of stuff!
2006-11-16 20:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Artificially Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm DONT have sex with your parents and siblings in the house. who likes that? Its not sexy, its disturbing. Next dont push her to have sex, then she really wont want to. Next some people dont have multiple orgasms. its likely that she hasnt even had one during sex (even if she says so) because that is actually very rare (if is just from intercourse). Dont expect her to have an orgasm, because that puts pressure on her and it makes it almost impossible to have one then
2006-11-16 19:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by AliceA. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you two need to be alone for once. that could definately be the reason why there is not that *spark during sex. every girl is different in how fast she comes. what you have to do is know what your girlfriend likes, how offten, where, etc. Have you tried to ask her what she wants??
2006-11-16 20:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best if you talked to your girlfriend and find out what she likes
2006-11-16 19:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice.
Practice.
Practice.
2006-11-16 19:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to the motel or the hotel.
2006-11-16 22:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try a motel and ask her what she likes.
2006-11-16 20:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋