Im 14 and just want to have a fun life and live it to the fullest. But theres soo much going on. Family stress, (parents divorced, mom remarrred and fighting) , i just want to live it up and be happy, friendly and fun. How! And also, I really want to have a bf...not just because i feel like it or for popularity or w/e..but just because i really want someone who cares about me and likes me for me and wants to have a good time, someone to talk to. any advice?
2006-11-16 11:51:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about, not to care about these thing much and live the life you wants to live
2006-11-16 11:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is a very difficult age for a little girl. Not a girl not still a woman. You are going through a lot of physical and hormonal changes at this time in your life. All of the feelings you have are totally normal and all girls go through the same. Some just are better at coping. Your parents issues are just that, their issues. Live confidently knowing that you are the best that you can be. Ask what you can do for support to your mom who must be going through a lot also. Giving of yourself, you will be surprised just how much that will mean to your mom and ultimately the stress will be less. Look into doing volunteer work if it is available in your area. You will see how gratifying that can be as well. Don't rush or pressure yourself to want a boyfriend. Care about and respect yourself and your body. You are only young for such a short time. Join a club at school and you will meet people with same interests as you. Hope this helps.
2006-11-16 20:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by tulsamum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to enjoy life and have fun is to stop worrying about what other people think of you. That constant worry is a huge waste of energy. Stop looking for the right guy. He's coming across!
Good luck
2006-11-16 19:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by cecilia d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow yeah im just like you. i have divorced parents, and ive had some very bad relationships and stuff. Ive been depressed for months, until i finally realized that thats how life is. Life will never be easy to live and you have to accept that.
2006-11-16 19:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by big e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing dnt allow d stress of ur family disturb u....mke sure u kip ur grades up...and at dis age to find a guy who really cares and isn't just after gettin in between is rare.Wateva u do DNT be in hurry to get into a relationship,bcos if u r anxious sum random guy could tke advantage of u and jst walk away.
So set ur priorities right...chill out wiv friends and go shoppin',go bowling,go swimmin but know who you are and wat u want...dnt let anybody take away ur self respect and dignity...Goodluck dear....holla
2006-11-16 20:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tinnie Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find urself a nice young boy friend not to date but boys listen and they always have something fun to do u2 just get out to the mall talk on the fun and just enjoy urself and not worry about grown folk affairs they always work out so just find urself a nice friend guy that will take ur mind off ur problems
2006-11-16 19:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by carla28al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, u r one of those unlucky ones whose childhod will end in despair...just kiddin...
yes..havin a bf is a good idea.
2006-11-16 19:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by askance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I argee with askance!!!
2006-11-16 19:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋