I've been sexually active for about a year now and am still lost! I ask my partner for directions, but he just takes charge and doesn't give me a chance. What exactly should I do on top? Where can I find out more information? Anyone know any videos or anything like that?
2006-11-16 11:50:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and for guys- even if she's on top and is doing what feels good for her but not for you for a bit, are you still excited?
2006-11-16 11:54:48 · update #1
You just need to practice....it's not the same for everybody.but try grinding your hips in a figure 8.start from one side and grind in circles to the other side.Also slowly going up and down is good too...it is whatever feels good to you and your partner.Also try renting a how to video,I have seen them advertised in the back of some womens magazines.Good luck!
2006-11-16 11:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ride him cow girl do any thing that make,s you feel good and I'm sure he will like it .There is not anything you could do wrong if you are having a good time, Sex tape,s wont help none most of that stuff is just a show. Explore and have fun that is what it is all about.
2006-11-16 20:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am the same way Like to be in charge on top on my side doggie is the best but for a women to be on top is very romantic and it is for the beginning of love making. For me if you want to be on top I like to have some pillows under my head so I will be more in the up right position so when you are the on top I can kiss your boobs and rub you when you are moving around and it is really nice when she turns the other way around and rub yourself and touch him to when he is inside you and rubs his balls and then go down on him .
2006-11-16 20:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remember this, when you are on top, you are in charge. So do what gives you pleasure, go fast, go slow, let him in deep inside you.
Lean over and kiss him, let your breasts, hang in his face, so that he can lick your nipples.
Just have fun and enjoy yourself. You are a partner in this, so do what you want.
As the others have said, watch some adult videos, they are easy enough to get on the web. Or ask some one, you know, who may have some, to share. Lots of men have them.
2006-11-16 19:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most porns will show you a women on top of a man but you do pretty much the same thing as when your on the bottom, you are just on top.
2006-11-16 19:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you are on top you ride him in a way that makes you feel good, and then him. It is REALLY easy to get off while being on top if you ride him to your satisfaction. Its really easy and self explainatory....you don't really need any pictures or videos...but whatever makes you feel better!!
2006-11-16 19:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a reason the "woman on top" position is referred to as "cowgirl" -- ride 'em, cowgirl! Pretend you're on a bucking bronco, and have fun.
Any porn movie is a good "resource" -- there are lots of positions shown, techniques, etc. They're usually pretty awfully produced, have no story, etc. -- but that's not why you get them, is it? :)
Peace.
2006-11-16 19:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you're on top, its your time to do what you want. You get to take control on how deep he goes or the speed. Just sit back and enjoy. It's all up to you and what feels good.
2006-11-16 19:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by D S 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ride him girl. Ride him like Debra Winger rode that electric broncho on "Urban Cowboy."
2006-11-16 19:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you still don't know after a year, you are not really interested. and No I will not give you information, a video or anything.
2006-11-16 19:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋