I have been dating some1 for almost a year & a half(tom. is our annivesary) Is it really mean to break up with them tom.??? Why??
2006-11-16 11:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Today is his 1/2 b-day and tom is our 1.5 yr annivesary. Is it wrond to break up with him tom??
2006-11-16 11:51:22 · update #1
It is more mean for you and him to continue with your doubts, be honest please, that is a gift to you and him , . do not waste anymore of eachothers lives..
2006-11-16 11:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lesha a Canadian. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you think is right.
If Tom and you are not hitting the right note then tell him, don't use him as a door mat and dumping him now or later (whether it happens to be the date of the anniversary...who cares), your going to have to do anyway. Either way breaking up hurts, he will get over it and maybe learn a thing or two.
2006-11-16 20:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be sad if you have plans with him to celebrate and instead you break up with him but I also think it is lame to go through with the celebration. Tell it to him straight, say that you know what day it is but that you need to end the relationship right away and that you are sorry for the sadness you attached to this milestone. If you are nice about it, it won't be mean.
2006-11-16 19:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know for a while that you wanted to break off the relationship? If so, you're a meaner person for leading him on into thinking that everything is fine between you two. To dump him on an anniversary is mean, but you need to let go of him instead of leading him on emotionally. Good luck to your boyfriend, he's going to need it.
2006-11-16 19:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's mean. I don't know too many guys who would know or recognise the fact that you've reached the 18 month mark. I'm a girl and I didn't even bother acknowledging it because I knew my boyfriend would see it as such a non-event.
2006-11-16 20:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is mean b/c anniversaries are about celebrating ur love. My boyfriend it's never a right time to say goodbye.
2006-11-16 19:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee why did you wait so long? Ouch, but if you need to end it then do so, just be kind about it!
2006-11-16 19:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm YES! a year and a half...and break up with em tomarrow???? not such a good idea hon...no not a brite one
2006-11-16 19:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by *!* BrOoKe *!* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is mean...but if you really want to do it, then get it over with.
2006-11-16 19:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely53 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes lol but if your not happy then go for it
2006-11-16 19:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋