ok it this one guy that i kind of like but i am scare that when i asked him out he will turn me down i want to know how he feel but I don't want to get rejected.What should I do
2006-11-16 11:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by cutiepie j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it girl. you dont live to please him.
2006-11-16 11:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is part of the love game when you are so young. And, when you get older. It may hurt but, that only means the the right one hasn't come along yet. There are plenty of guys out there that you can take your time getting to really know. You are worth spending your time with someone that is loving, caring etc. Give it time and have fun in the mean time.
2006-11-16 11:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who tries something they really want to do are afraid of failure. As Wayne Gretsky said, "You miss 100% of the shots you do not take."
Ask yourself, what is the worse that can happen if you don't succeed in what you are trying. If that is more than you can bare, then do not attempt it. Remember to compare it to what will happen if it will succeed.
In the end, remember your own self value. If he's not interested, it's his loss, not yours. That saves you time and effort to find the guy that worships the ground you walk on. The guy will regret it later.
Best of luck!
2006-11-16 11:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to ask him out, do so. Don't let the fear of rejeciton, stop you. If we all did that, no one would get together.
So what if he rejects you, that's sad, but not fatal. You just move on and find some other cute guy to ask out. Maybe if you are lucky, some nice guy will ask you out.
2006-11-16 11:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me you need to talk to him somewhere private. Then just sit down (just the two of you) and say your true honest feelings. True honesty is the key. And if he doesn't like you back--don't let it ruin your life. Just forget about him and move on if he doesn't like you back.
However, if you are not confident enough to confront him, ask him for his number then call him and say, "I have really something important to tell you. I like LIKE you." Then just hang up! He will probably call you back. This what I have done before.
Or, you can try passing him a note, saying, "I really really like you!"
I hope this helped. Good luck and I hope he likes you back
2006-11-16 11:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. First off, you should try and find out if he shares the same feelings for you. Because if he does like you in return, it's likely that he won't reject you :)
good luck !
2006-11-16 11:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by CHA0TIK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋