some guys grabbed my butt when we crowded thru the hall to lunch. one after another really fast. they turned around really quick or put on a straight face and just DISAPPEARED so i couldn't tell who they were...its SO annoying!!! if i find them, what should i do? next time???
2006-11-16 11:45:18 · 13 answers · asked by skigrrl66 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Hmm... I think it really depends on what kind of guy did it. If it's a popular guy, maybe he is flirting with you? If you don't think so, comfront him directly or just give him a cold stare.
If it's a more unpopular guy, he could also be flirting. Also bring it up directly, but you could do it publicly and, if he is relitively unpopular, most people will be on your side. Hopefully, it will stop. I hope that helps.
~MMT~
P.S- Good luck finding the guy
2006-11-16 11:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm too old for HS, but if I were still in HS and saw this, the offending punk would be tasting the soles of my shoes. I have beaten the crap out of many guys for such stuff back in HS because I am personally offended at such low class behavior and since many of the ladies were scared of these jock idiots, I felt that it was my duty as a guy to knock some sense into the hormonally challenged fools who resorted to caveman tactics for attracting women. Yes, I have been suspended on occasion for this, but if you asked me now if I would do it again...my answer would be "absolutely". Some guys need a good *** kicking because their parents failed in teaching them proper manners and etiquette around ladies, and guess what, all the pretty girls were chasing after me and the jocks were left standing like morons, wondering why the girls weren't paying them any attention. Moral of the story is..."act like a fool and you will be treated like one".
2006-11-16 23:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I don't remember when copping a feel was considered flirting. Why don't I just go and grab someones as5 and then say it was flirting. But not only that, only the popular guy can do that, it's okay for him to grab all the girls back rack. If it happens again make a sharp backwards kick in the groin area... and wear steel heeled boots.
2006-11-16 20:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by Snack B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the easy thing to do would be to just ignore it, but no one really likes this advice. So you could either stick a big pillow to your butt OR just tell the guys off if you catch them in the act. Personally, I'd prefer the latter.
2006-11-16 19:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by makelovenothate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember this onetime I was at a club and some guy grabbed my butt, and I turned around just in the nick of time to catch him do it, I let him walk a little more, then kicked him on his back (I had high heels on too!) then he got mad, and asked me why I did it. I asked him, "Why did you grabbed my azz?" he apologized. The moral of my story, is to kick him when they do that.
2006-11-16 21:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do that at bars all the time. I hate that.
you could tell a teacher, or tie a sweatshirt around your waist, or wear a backpack on your back so they can't get to your rear..... Or, put a purse over your backside.
2006-11-16 19:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sarasvah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A slap to the face would make him think twice next time
2006-11-17 08:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by MB42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wut ur talking about..the nerve of some boys!! once these two boys did the same thing and we were on a crowded stairway and they'll laugh 4 a second or two and then just act like nothing happened..they think they can get away w/ it n thats y they do it
2006-11-16 19:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by × 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some big guy did that to me years ago and I turned around and said I hope squeezing my bloody kotex pad was exciting.
2006-11-17 07:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by precious z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to someone about it. make sure that you know who they are. that is considered sexual harrassment, and there can be actions taken. if you don't stop this, there can be bigger problems down the road.
2006-11-16 20:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋