See i broke up with my boyfriend today, he looked really sad should I go back out with him or just ignore him until he gets over it?
2006-11-16 11:40:45 · 7 answers · asked by pinkjonsie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ignore him, hon. He'll get over it.
2006-11-16 11:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can not go back to him just because you pity him.It is different than love. You must try to talk to him and make him feel that it is something you must do ( whatever reasons you have & is probably the best for both of you )and that he will soon get it over it.Help him out for a while.It is okay to be sad for a while BUT if he has this problem coping with it then I guess, you must give him his own space until he learns to move on. You can't stay with someone and risk your own happiness. You also have life of your own to deal with.BUT you must be very sure of your feelings..if you really don't love him and if breaking-up is the last solution..because once you let go of that guy and hurt him that much..there is no guarantee he will ever want you back. Hope this helps.Pray a lot. God bless
2006-11-16 11:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have had a good reason to break up with him, and if that reason, hasn't changed, then don't go back with him.
You will end up, breaking up again, and it will give him the false hope that you two can get back together.
In life, we often end up, either breaking up with someone, or someone breaking up with us. It's just a sad fact of life, but not life threatening and we all get over it, in due time.
He will to, although he may be sad for a while, he'll meet someone new, and start all over again.
So don't worry about it, and let it be, as it is.
2006-11-16 11:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg NO dont go back out w/ him just becuz hes sad...one of my exs made me feel sooo bad so i was like ok i should go back out w/ him... BAD IDEA! we broke up AGAIN like 3 days later....if you dont wanna go back out w/ him dont and just let him go dont be mean but jsut let him go he needs to suck it up anyways lol but yea hope i helped ya
2006-11-16 11:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by *!* BrOoKe *!* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could comfort him and maybe get back together because he is so upset. Email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
2006-11-17 10:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be with him if you dont care about him. the break up later would be more devestating to him then
2006-11-16 11:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by AliceA. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://breakup.com
2006-11-16 11:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋