what age would you prefer her to have her first kiss?
2006-11-16
11:30:38
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Daisy Duke
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explain why
2006-11-16
11:38:15 ·
update #1
here' s an answer to everybody who thinks it should be over the age 20. Im 14 i havent had mine yet but i just wanted to get an genral idea of what my mom think about it when it does happen for real. Now i think shes going to freak. More answers would be apreciated
2006-11-17
00:02:18 ·
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what would your daughter think about your decision. it is hard not being kissed now when your a teen think about that!!!!
2006-11-17
00:03:51 ·
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i was 12 when i had my first kiss. and im not sure but whenever it is i hope i dont react bad. shes only 3 monthes and i think its strange that my baby will walk and talk one day,hehehe.
2006-11-17 22:49:50
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answered by Dungonecrazy11 2
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I have a 3 year old daughter. She has alredy been kissed, more than once. Now you have to ask yourself what do you call a kiss. It was her birthday and one little boy, also 3 gave her a present and then because he had seen daddy kissing mommy when he gave her a gift, he leaned over and kissed her on the lips. The secret is to not react to it. Then having seen that another friend also 3 years old came up to give her a gift and also leaned in for a kiss. This really doesnt count as to what you are talking about but it sets my point. What do you call a kiss? Are you going to instantly think your daughter is a lesbian because she and her best friend get into the habit of kissing hello? This is often a simple peck on the cheek but can also be a simple peck on the lips.
You have to think for yourself what YOU are comfortable with.
I was 4 when I kissed my first girlfriend. That is what we called her, I was called her boyfriend. We went to all the dances together at the daycare (military overseas has interesting daycare programs). We held hands, we took naps together. Was that wrong? No, it was part of growing up and because of things like that I am better able to have platonic relationships than any guy I grew up with.
You dont need to worry until they associate kissing with something other that friends.
2006-11-17 01:33:51
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answered by Texas Tiger 5
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I have an 11 month old daughter and I think any time after the age of 13 would be ok for her to be kissed.But if her dad,and her 4 brothers(3older 1 younger)have their way she will never be kissed much less have a boyfreind.Oh my poor little girl gonna be rough having to have her dad and 4 brothers around as she gets older and in high school. There will deffentaly be family arguments about her and boys.
2006-11-16 22:30:33
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answered by Dixie H 4
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Well im a teen, and i say because daughters need there space i know how they wil feel. if u count kissing on the cheak a first kiss then that can be at any age, i think, because its just a peck to say they care, my first kiss on the cheak was in first grade. then first kiss on the lips i was 12, and that is usually when girls get there first kiss these days, so i would say you should let her be kiss on the lips like at 12. that way she doesnt feel stressed. because what i think about is that if i were to have to not have a kiss until i was 15 or 16 or watever im going to do because no girl can wait that long, so u give them a younger age, it actually wil be harder for them to find a boy who can kiss at that age, a family trick.
2006-11-16 19:50:23
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answered by Anonymous
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2006-11-16 19:33:13
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answered by Melissa 7
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2006-11-16 19:33:54
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answered by Anonymous
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i might not have a daughter but i am a teen and whether or not u want it to they r going to get kissed sooner or later i got my first kiss when i was 13 and yea my mom didn't want me to kiss guys until i was at least 15 and i wasn't going to let that happen cuz i couldn't like but help guys.... but i would say 14 because like then she will b in highschool... hopefully..... and this get more serious in high school... but it depends on the person and how mature they are........ i was in 8th grade wen i had my first kiss
2006-11-16 19:36:31
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answered by ConFuZzled? 3
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Besides never? Ugh. Well, preferably in her teens, high school, but I gotta be realistic. I know my daughter has already kissed a boy, and she's 12 and in 7th grade. My first kiss was in 9th grade, but I was only 13.
2006-11-16 19:34:26
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answered by candirenee74 2
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I would prefer never but I think she has a different idea. My daughter is almost 12 and recieved her first kiss this last summer. Don't stress too much about it.
2006-11-16 21:16:03
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answered by Hazeleyes 2
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Once she's old enough to get married. She doesn't have to actually be married but should be in a serious relationship. I believe that if you kiss early it leads to all kinds of other things early, too, and I believe premarital sex or other sexual things is wrong. Since non-passionate kissing is the most sexual thing that's okay outside of marriage from my perspective I don't want her to do it too early lest she be tempted to do other things that aren't okay.
2006-11-17 00:04:55
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answered by AerynneC 4
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2006-11-17 03:22:23
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answered by Lisa 3
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