The reason i ask this question is because my brother began dating this disgusting girl who brought many troubles to our family and to my brother. She sleeps over the house without permission and has sex with my brother ( i kwn this they got caught) and my parents are still in the house plus my little brother! My parents got tired of all this and my mom yelled at my brother and she told him to chose between his gf or his mother! my brother chose.............his girlfriend! who would you guys choose?!
more info they've only been in a relationship for 8 months!
2006-11-16 11:16:04 · 24 answers · asked by Khristine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NEVER
2006-11-16 11:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known people who were in this type of relationship and for some reason they see good in these people that really isn't there. If you are close to your brother try sitting down and having a heart to heart with him. Let him know that you all love him very much and the girl is only going to break his heart in the end.
2006-11-16 11:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by its_just_sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would choose my boyfriend over my mother. She is very manipulative and instead of wanting the best for her children she always seeks out what is best for her at the expense of others. I think that when you are young and supposidely in love with someone your parents will always seem like a threat due to their authority. I think your mom could have chosen a better approach than posing a "her-or-me" attitude. The truth is that he will soon realize that his family should always be there for them. As far as what you have said, she isn't endagering his life, and I believe that if that is your parents consern, they should be harsh, but your mom could have tried talking to him and imposing consequences to his actions rather than turning her back, or allowing him to turn his.
2006-11-16 11:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by bettybobetty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should ever choose and gf or bf over your own parents! Your parents will always be there for you no matter what the problem is. GF and BF's come and go. I'm sure your brother will figure this out in time. Good luck.
2006-11-16 11:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by uncertain 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i does not. i'm no longer asserting i think this way yet i comprehend a few females do unlike mothers or acquaintances going procuring because of the fact of diverse motives one being that they have got theory "my guy could no longer even %. out my ring himself?" additionally they incredibly much continuously have thoroughly diverse types however the mothers or acquaintances will many times %. out what they like the perfect it relatively is no longer even intentionally human beings only have diverse tastes. This got here approximately to a pal of mines spouse - he took his mom or her mom considered one of the two to %. out the hoop.. anyhow the mum picked out what she enjoyed which became a solitaire and the spouse of direction whilst happy with it would have never picked something like that out. yet another excuse is a few females have dreamed of a particular placing, colour of band and stone, or the rest like that so it would be perfect to permit her %. it out. in the adventure that your going to spend as much as that plenty on a hoop permit her choose. (this is rather fairly ridiculous in my view- you will no longer look "much low priced" something greater suitable than $8,000 i'd say is overboard. the money does not make the affection) additionally do no longer subject approximately it being unusual or no longer a marvel quite a few human beings propose without an truthfully ring that i've got heard of
2016-10-15 15:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, you didn't say how old your brother was. If he's old enough to move out of the house, then he should do so, and date whomever he wishes without disrespecting the family.
2006-11-16 11:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all having sex in your moms house is very disrespectful...and that girl should be ashamed of herself. Its a good thing your mom stood up to them. If he chose to be with his girl then so be it....he will come crying back to mom when they break up.
2006-11-16 11:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats so wrong, not only did he chose his gf over his own mother but they were disrespecting youre whole family and the house by bringing her in there and havin her sleep over.
2006-11-16 11:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are they choosing to get mairried?
If they are, i would definately choose my friend over my mother, because she is the one that taught me that if you love someone that much, not even family matters
2006-11-16 11:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a Virgin? As he gets older he will see the error of his ways. He may just be new to getting some booty so he choose the booty, don't hold it against him. He'll come around.
2006-11-16 11:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would always choose my mother. most of the time the girl you meet before you get out of college is not the girl you will narry so why should your life revolve around her. FAMILY FIRST!!!!!!!
2006-11-16 11:19:15 · answer #11 · answered by holiolio 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋