And why do they think they can continue this way and not make us feel that we might be better off staying alone since in this way we won't subject ourselves to some guy's callous semi-interest in the person behind the face/b**bs/a**?
2006-11-16 11:11:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart, so many girls have broken my heart I just don't feel like romance anymore, sorry luv kh xx
2006-11-16 11:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any author has dared to write this anywhere, I have yet to find it. I'm gonna be politically incorrect, but this is what life has honestly shown me.
I read why does he "not make us feel that we might be better off staying alone."
It's instinctual. If it's remotely possible that you are in any way already projecting through your speech, attitude, or body language that you might be better off alone, this is not taken as an invitation.
"in this way we won't subject ourselves"
This is another problem. A man is either looking for a quick lay, a place to invest himself for the long term, or parental love. Only a childish man is attracted by women who will not subject themselves.
Before she is able to identify the need in her life, I feel it's important for a lady to decide what her values are, what her talents are, and what she is willing to contribute. Then, the way to approach her potential mate should be self explanatory.
Callous semi-interest is the way a man evaluates you. It's a question of what you're showing to who, and you haven't made this clear.
2006-11-16 11:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by _ _ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Amb *hugs* Welcome back. we've neglected you lots. first of all, you're literally not a slut in case you admit it. it isn't in any respect too previous as a results of modify, no count number what occurs. i do not understand your life, so this suggestion would not be one hundred% precise. yet you're of course not over Vince, and subsequently not waiting to commence with every person new. you do not *have* to be with someone, Amb. have you ever tried being on my own yet? once you've been been being a slut, then you truthfully have not. that is not a thanks to get over someone. i'd say positioned absolutely everyone on pause till you're chuffed only being Amb. you may't make a 2 individual relationship artwork till you're making the *ONE* individual relationship artwork. bypass in steps. second, If i have discovered some thing, in case you weren't happy with Vince the first time, you isn't the second one. there replaced right into a *reason* you ended issues, Amb. he's only being egocentric through doing this to you. He needs *himself* to feel free, and through doing that, he's compromising what *you* want out of a relationship. about James, i don't love him...possibly it is only because he's a Marine like my dad replaced into. I fantastically a lot hate my father, so for you to ignore about this little rant because i'm very biased even as it is composed of that. If Jake is your pal, then he will wait till you're prepared. No rush to go back to a call there. Garrett sounds better. yet surely, i imagine you may be on my own for a lengthy time period to imagine. Do you want Vince, or are you depending on him? i have had to visual demonstrate unit my mom, aunt, and sister go through abusive relationships. and also you realize what, they are nonetheless in them, yet they are unhappy. that could not love, its habit. Vince would not be abusive, yet remember how issues enhance. possibly that's time to break it off now, because the subsequent time will be four hundred% harder keep me cautioned, Amb. i'm irritating about you. <3Marian<3 EDIT: human beings are going to inform you who they imagine you should elect. i'm right here to inform you that you mustn't elect every person, a minimum of till you've a sparkling slate to artwork with.
2016-11-24 23:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl I don't even know. I had a romantic nice boyfriend but he moved to canada and we both agreed that long distance wouldn't be good. I wish I hadn't though because you can't find no guys like dat no more. I wonder where they at 2!!!!
2006-11-16 11:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I think they're interested in it..at first..sum will be rly sweet @ first..then after a while the newness wears off and its lyk b***s n hos u know... its rly sad..But Im sure there are sum good ones out there.
Just havent dated him yet.
2006-11-16 11:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by XxON3LOV3xX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are like that taka i am romantic as long as she would allow me to be if there was a her some guys just wanna you know what because there all physical these days keep searching and when u find the right one he'll romance u till u don't like it
2006-11-16 11:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by lilghetty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the male ego is so into making money and screwing the hot secretary in the department upstairs that they loose interest in the women that they "like", hope that helps girl, happy thanksgiving.
2006-11-16 11:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by charmedwitch94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^^ regarding that comment above... that's all in your head guys. We like the sweet side more than the tough side.
As for that kind of personality.. I think it depends on the person.
2006-11-16 11:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women think nice guys are weak
2006-11-16 11:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them all no more start a protest,,maybe it will catch on
2006-11-16 11:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋