We have been dating for three months and I really like him the only problem is every time we have sex he's a little too gentle. I don't mind "making love" every once in awhile but most times I just want him to bit(h-slap me on to the bed and overpower me. I love a guy who dominates and does stuff like pull my hair or grab me and just shove it in. I love to feel my guy's strength. But He views sex as such a sacred thing and because of that he's just too nice. How should I tell him to be more forceful?
2006-11-16 11:09:23 · 10 answers · asked by Caligirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't tell him, show him. go on with yo bad self lil' playa.
2006-11-16 11:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is to gentle. That you want to be taken more forcefully, but be careful he does not get to the point of abusing you. Tell him what you like and DO NOT like. I am sure he wants to please you, but is a bit timid about how to go about pleasing you.
2006-11-16 19:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should dominate him. like tryout on him how u like having sex. so then he not only experience but begins to understand what and how you like things done.
2006-11-16 19:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAH hair pulled / slapped / and gang banged? Girl i think you should break up with him and join a porn industry .. !!!!! Its love making if you love teh person ...!!!! I wouldnt beat up my girl while having sex with her .. thats just wrong!!!
2006-11-16 19:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him directly. He'll understand
2006-11-16 19:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by dveltmands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start being more forceful and see if he follows suit... if he doesn't try talking to him about it because he might not feel comfortable doing it.
2006-11-16 19:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT.. IF HE THOUGHT IS WAS SACRED HE WOULD MARRY U FIRST..SO JUST RIDE HIM LIKE A BUCKIN BRONCO
2006-11-16 19:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by native,pride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I already answered this question. You know what you need to do, so do it!
2006-11-16 19:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by joyall57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him wat u want
that some time u want things ur way in bed and don't mind his way at all.
it all about communication so let him know
i am sure he will get it
2006-11-16 19:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just encouarg him slowly
2006-11-16 19:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋