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their is this girl in my class and were pretty good friends but i have this huge crush on her and i cant tell if she likes me back cuz she always laughs around me and uses this quite voice she doesnt use around other people. my problem is that usually when im around her so is my best friend and he is alot better looking then me (well at least i think so) so im wondering if anyone can help me out.

2006-11-16 11:05:48 · 10 answers · asked by dan 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

kill your friend so that you're the only good looking person around her.

2006-11-16 11:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

well, you've got to make some choices here I think: how much would you like to go out with her? How much would you care if things backfired and she wasn't sure or she wasn't ready for anything more than 'just friends' would you think it's still worth the try despite the risks?

If the answers come out in favour of your asking her, then you know what to do. The main issue now is how?

Well this is what i'd do. I'd just enjoy our company, slowly stepping up my attention with more deep questions about life about her to build up a rapport & see more of what she's like and how she reacts to me in different situations.

eventially i'd just say something like 'what would you say if I asked you out?' If you get a 'no-like' answer then you can switch round and move on with 'well I didn't ask you anyway... & you can move on the conversation smoothly in different directions.

The important thing is to BE CONFIDENT at all times and enjoy the whole thing as much as possible. Don't bee too introverted the whole time, try to look at the situation as an observer and just so you can take in more of how she's dealing with the situation and you can choose which of the emotions to feed off rather than spend half your energy being introverted and ebroilled in your inner emotions. Enjoy the rush as much as you can, have as many good thoughts as possible in your head and BE CONFIDENT.

Good luck man, have fun!

2006-11-16 20:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh, to be that young again. I thinks she likes you. In the 70's when I was in school, things were pretty much the same. I had a crush on this guy and I would giggle, laugh, say stupid things, act non-interested (so I wouldn't feel regected) you name it...If she was not interested, she would probably be just as normal as usual, not much eye contact, not giggle. You need to figure out how she acts around her other friends, watch her actions. Actions speak louder than words! My best to you.

2006-11-16 19:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Red! 2 · 1 0

She always laughs around u?Well, usually its a sign but if ur friend is also around... well I'm not sure. How about this. Tell ur friend tat u like tat girl and ask tat whenever she comes around if he could leave just to see if she acts differently. If she stares at u a lot when he's not there she likes u.

2006-11-16 19:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0 0

You haven't given us much to go on, but if she is talking to you then she likes you, to what extend I don't know. Although she does like you enough to talk to you in public with your best friend, so I would say its highly likely she does.

>I'm guessing your hot best friend is gay.<

Have a great day :)

2006-11-16 19:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by amateur_smiley 1 · 0 0

y not tel her how u fel. try 2 c if she flirts w/ u no 1 else, dos she luk at u 4 a lung tim, just try talkn 2 her.

2006-11-16 19:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥CHiiCA FR3SA♥ 1 · 0 0

The most important when wooing a lady....BE CONFIDENT!! Who cares if YOU think that your bestfriend is better looking....obviously she doesn't think he is better looking cause she is looking at you!! Go for it and tell her....tell her she's beautiful and how you feel. You have nothing to lose!!

2006-11-16 19:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0 0

she probably likes you as a VERY good friend if she's that different. but i dont think shes ready to take it to the next level yet.

2006-11-16 19:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 3 · 0 0

Ask her directly if she has a liking some where more stronger than a friend for you.

2006-11-16 19:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by kirtik 3 · 0 0

pass her a note

2006-11-16 19:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 0 0

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