i have a cousin that is around my age level, she is attractive. she likes me a lot more than a cousin and shes been asking me to do sexual things with her. she also asked me to make out with her. i was wondering if it was ok to do it or if i should tell her no. please comment your advice. thanks
2006-11-16 11:04:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be some kinky sex. Just be sure to use like 5 types of birth control.
2006-11-16 11:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by devil's advocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER NO!!!!!!!!! Since she is your cousin you will not be able have normal kids and if you start to like her then you might want to do just that. Or if you and her do sexual things together and she gets pregnant how you explain that?
2006-11-16 19:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you need to ask if it is wrong you have answered the question, she is wrong to want to do sexual things with you, you are family,
I know of quite a few people who have made out even had sex even married their own kin, don't you think God frowns on that being that he created enough people to give us a selection? She needs to be put in check...
2006-11-16 19:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether Biblically allowable, or legally forbidden, the question implies that you personally have no immediate objections against it.
How discrete would you have to be in order to maintain your reputation, and are you willing to stand by the consequences? If not, then I advise against it, regardless of what my opinion is.
2006-11-16 19:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by _ _ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, she's related to you, this fact should stop you in your tracks. Second, if she's your first cousin, it's actually illegal in some states to have sexual activities. Tell her she needs to quit making advances towards you, you're family!
2006-11-16 19:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by mercymarie3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't. it will leave lifelong scars. i know, i did it. two cousins which were brothers, the oldest molested me against my will and still to this day will not admit he did that to me. the younger one who was my age, well he was the sweetest and best friend i had, i think we were both screwed up, i had already been molested and he was being abused verbally at home, father left, and he committed suicide when he was 17. so i would say definitely not...no not a good idea.
2006-11-16 19:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by michelle b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No doubt we can be attracted to our cousins, but staying away could be the best for the whole family. Could this be considered incest?
2006-11-16 19:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by Concerned Friend 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is definitely NO! Stay far far away from her! There are plenty of attractive ladys out there that are not related to you..find one and make out with her!
2006-11-16 19:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Zoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
If you wanty to do it, it'd be okay with some people but not with others - many feel against it in my experience. If you do do it, i wish you the best of luck, and be sure to use precaution - not because i think she has STDs, but because i don't think you want to impregnate her.
On the same token, if you choose not to, and you regret it, you have no one to blame but yourself. If you do choose to and you don't regret it - more power to you.
2006-11-16 19:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really is not ok. Maybe she has some issues she needs to work out and she should talk to somebody.
2006-11-16 19:06:11 · answer #10 · answered by its_just_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋