my life has been so busy lately. Homework, school, social life, working out, cleaning everything over and over again, and on top of all that, they guy i like knows i like him! now he won't even talk to me because he just got a girlfriend. What should i do about him and my stress?
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2006-11-16 11:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
By the way, i also have to take care of my brother and sister. (i.e. feed them, tuck them in, clean up after them, make sure they don't get bored, etc.)
2006-11-16 11:10:06 · update #1
You need to forget about the guy you like. He has a g/f and wants to keep her. There are many more fish in the sea. You say you are very busy, are you too busy?
If you are doing too much, then you need to cut back in some area so that you have more time to relax. You can't cut back in the school or homework area because that is the foundation for your future.
You have to look at your schedule and make time for yourself. I know how it is to be so busy that it seems like the whole day is filled with things you "have" to do and to have to do the same things over and over again.
Try to schedule some time for yourself every day that you want to do, even if it is only for 1/2 hour.Sometimes that can help.There is a line in an old song(I'm an old person), "there is never enough time to do the things that we want to do, once we find them".
We have to set limits with other people who want us to do things, so that we don't go past our limits, and do too much. We also have to set limits with ourselves; to set priorities with what we have to do and what we want to do, so that we don't go past our limits. There is never enough time to do everything.
Since I don't know you and what your issues are, I don't know what else might be contributing to your feelings of being stressed, or if there are other issues you have.
I don't care about the points but I would be happy if something that I have written has been helpful. God's peace to you, the peace that "surpasses human under standing".
2006-11-16 11:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking someone and being rejected is really hard, but it sounds like you've got too much going on to worry about a guy (and he sounds like a jerk anyway). don't slack off on your homework, no matter how hard it may be. (trust me, you really wanna do your best because it will help you in the long run) if you get the chance, ask for help before of after school. or, contact the teacher and tell them what's going on. maybe you can make arrangements to get extra help during school hours. social life should be put on hold if your family needs you first. working out really doesn't sound like a priority right now, but it's not like you'll never get the opportunity again. if you've got some good friends, ask them to help out with your brother and siste or cleaning around the house. if they wanna hang out with you on the weekends, they might not be too reluctant to help.
2006-11-16 11:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all dont stress out on that guy you like he has a girlfriend already so just forget about him if you want to keep on talking to him talk to him and let him know that u respect that he has a girlfriend but you would still like to have him as a friend and about your busy schedule try to come up with a daily planner to plan your day so it wont be that busy !!
2006-11-16 11:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by pleasentlybeautiful 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to the guy, there's more fish in the sea, just ignore him, by that I mean pretend he isn't there. Look through him. Make yourself a list in the evening what needs to be done tomorrow and follow through. Where's your mother, can't she help? The same in the evening, do anything that has priority first and get it out of the way. Before you hit the bed do a little bit of stretching and deep breathing to relieve the stress.
2006-11-16 11:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about the boy and focus on the important things in life like your education and social like wiht friends. I know its hard but when a boy has made you feel even more stressed, its not healthy to have him in you life. so keep going with you school work and friends and family becuase in the long run they will be there for you. and for all your stress put it into something, try yoga or pilates, its like working out and stress relieve together. good luck<3
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2016-12-10 10:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lord child you need a break ;no wonder your stressed' well since he's got a girlfriend theirs nothing you can do; got to move on ;find a new love. and if at all possible try and make some time for yourself and to relax ; allow yourself at least 1 hour each day to pamper yourself' hot bubble bath ; read a good book after kids are asleep' what ever you enjoy we all need time for just us. good luck
2006-11-16 11:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by deedee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for your stress , take time out for yourself and take a nice long hot bubble bath and relax while doing that, and the guy , forget about him , he has some one else , so let that go, i'm sure u can find a new guy to love u and u love him,good luck to u
2006-11-16 11:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your dignity. Forget about him for now.
If he has a girlfriend right now and IF he were to go out with you, what does that say about his character? If he went out on her he would most likely do it to you.
You deserve nothing less than the very best.
2006-11-16 11:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Balls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One method that i know will help you sort out your feelings and thoughts is to meditate. For 10 minutes sit with your eyes close and clear your mind. It will make you feel more in control, less stressed and smarter with memory! As for this guy, try to talk to him about or email him. if he doesn't respond then he's the loser for being a jerk to you. Good Luck!!!!
2006-11-16 11:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋