My bf got upset at me because I didn't call him for a couple of days. Yet, the way he acted when we last spoke gave me the impression that he wanted a little space. I didn't call, though I wanted to, but in all reality, I think I needed some time to think, too. Well, when we finally talked, he indicated how hurt he was that I didn't contact him. Keep in mind that the last time I contacted him, I was the one giving in. Why is it ok for him not to call, but if I don't, it suddenly means my loyalty to/love for him is questioned? It's not fair! How can I get the lines of communication back up...should I call him or not?
2006-11-16 10:18:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, don't fight. It takes 2 to argue. You can't manipulate how someone is going to act or control any outcomes. You can only control yourself and act with integrity and love. Just be genuine with one another. Don't be afraid to be the 1st to apologize. It is NOT fair, but that is love. That is love. Yes, things sound strong, just TESTED between the two of you. Here are some good vibes and blessings from me to you that things go well!
I know how you feel... I had a big blow out with my sweetie this morning. He apologized and so did I. At least you two expressed hurt that comes from CARING, not hurt from NOT CARING.
Peace.
2006-11-16 10:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOhh Yes, at all times!!!! They speak with their frame at all times!!! This is a tremendous main issue, that humans do not know puppy language. That's while humans get bit. And puppies who've now not been accurately socialized with different puppies or taken from their mom to quickly, do not continuously recognize the correct technique to converse. I might recommend that you just both study online, get a few books or ask a puppy behaviorist approximately it. It's a satisfactory device to have!!! It's this sort of large field, I could not even start to provide an explanation for it on right here.
2016-09-01 13:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to determine if what you're expressing, really matters to him...
Is he the type of person that the world "only" revolves around him ???
If he is, then I'm sorry , you have a bit of a control freak. Check out some local book stores/ libraries and pick up some books written by relationship experts... you'll see what I'm talking about.
2006-11-16 10:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly sounds like he's being a baby. You shouldnt have to be the one to call all the time. If he cant pick up the phone and call you then he is playing games and wants you to chase him. Let him call you next time and if he complains, tell him to grow up!
2006-11-16 10:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should keep the lines open as well not blame you for not calling
perhaps you should be considering the whole relationship and maybe looking for someone who really cares for you
2006-11-16 10:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. He's being a jerk.
2006-11-16 10:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no find someone that is more mature
2006-11-16 10:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋