I began working with a partner a year ago. We do equal amount of work, but he was established before I was in this business. Since then, I've worked hard, contributed a LOT to the business in time & effort. As part of business we hold seminars to help businesses comply with data privacy laws. There is a person in our group who often is present at meetings, seminars, etc...who is our upline. Yesterday, he made a comment that really bugs me. I put as much effort into the power point presentations, data research, preparation, etc as my partner. My partner speaks in front of the group, I haven't yet. This person came yesterday and made the comment to me"Are you going to make so-and-so give you any of the money he makes from these?" First of all---he doesn't make it--WE do. Secondly, I work as much as he does! How do I get that point across that even if I don't speak, my contribution is important too? Or am I just being too petty?
2006-11-16 10:08:26 · 7 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would ask him if he has ever heard the term "silent partner".
The next time you see this guy - you need to say to him, "Something you said to me has been bothering me, and I just want to clear up a misconception you may be having."
I think you need to ask him - "You ARE aware that I am an equal partner in this company - right?" See how he answers you then. More than likely that will get the point across.
My suggestion is not to lie down and take it - - you have every right to be treated with the same consideration and respect as your partner, and you should insist on it.
2006-11-16 10:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Karla R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe that you are being too petty. If you have worked for the money, then you should receive it as well. Maybe you could approach your partner with this, let him know that it bothers you and see what happens. It is easier said than done, but if you do nothing, then you will get nothing. Besides, busy people often tend to over look those details.
2006-11-16 10:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel in these presentations you should be addressed as the Co Owner of the business..
You should be presented to the audience even if you dont speak.
So like. Hi (Your name) and Myself (Name) are please to invite you to our launch.
Speal on about the business and where your headed then..
We would like to show you our showcase set up in PowerPoint.
Lights go down and you sit down.
At the end .. stand up with your business partner and give your goodbyes to the group.. this will involve you more and people will take notice that you are part of this business.
Good luck.
2006-11-16 13:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by A Lady Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have several choices you can let it slide and be comforted by the knowledge that he is a uninformed fool or you can politely state that you are a partner to the presentation and will recieve your share of the profits. I say let it slide and just leave the fool in the dark.
2006-11-16 10:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to introduce you as his partner n if there are any q after the seminar to not hesitate to ask you as well as him.
2006-11-16 10:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person is petty and is not worthy your answer. I suspect he is jealous of you and your business.
2006-11-16 10:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by nancymomkids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
laugh but not too hard and say ..I hope so because we are business partners...and walk away.
2006-11-16 23:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by precious z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋