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So I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 9 months. We had a bad start. Both of us were not serious and we would cheat.
Not sexually. So I wanted to get serious and we did and I became very insecure but I overcame that. One day around our 1 year and 7 month we both confessed everything we have very done. I was surprised and so was he. Ever since that day everything was all godd but then I had to move from NC to MD. NOT GOOD!
So we were very upset then I proimised him I would come back and visit. It's been 2 months since I have seen him and it's almost Thanksgiving and I am going to visit him. We are both very happy. My question is I have a question if he is cheating. I am not ssure. He says he's not. I'm not. We are both in school. We tell eachother if anything bad happens like people trying to get our number or trying to touch us in a way. Please give me an honest
opinion about our relationship and if he's cheating. Please!

2006-11-16 10:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by kraziikristie16 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

3 answers

Let me tell you...my bf cheated on me. GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING! Never doubt yourself or second guess youself. Your intuition is always right. So if you feel something is wrong go with it. Don't be in denial and let in go on, it GETS WORSE not better. A guy is NOT gonna tell you they are cheating. If you feel he is and you can't trust him. Then don't be with him. It gets harder as time goes on, it will eat you up inside until you cant take the BS anymore. Trust me, the longer the lies go on, the more hurt you'll be. Let him know because of your pasts, let him know its bothering you now, and you have doubts.

Be honest with yourself and hope he's honest with you.

2006-11-16 10:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Social B 1 · 0 0

There are two sayings.
Take the one you think fits best.
1. Absence makes the heart grow fonder
2, Out of sight , out of mind.
You are both miles away from each other..
If you think he is cheating , you are not giving him credit in being faithful.
Never accuse or hint that you think he is cheating.
You will find out when that two of you get together soon.
You can tell . It is a feeling you will know..

2006-11-16 18:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0 0

do you trust him?? if yes then believe him

if you dont trust him then you need to consider that very seriously --- why dont you trust him???

2006-11-16 18:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0 0

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