me and my boyfriend get weird looks from everyone, when we go to restaurants, the grocery store, even gas stations. we live in a small town and there are tons of people who know me and him and I guess they are just surprised to see us together we just usually laugh about it but its pretty sad that people think inter racial couples/relationships/marriages are strange. we have difficulties sometimes one of us has to explain a joke to the other or sometimes we take a while deciding what to eat or how to cook but if you love someone it doesn't matter. His friends don't approve of me but his mom loves me. there will always be people who are just not open minded. If you love each other truly then no issue should be big enough to "not" be overcome by love. good luck!
2006-11-16 10:48:47
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answered by jenn 1
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It's not a "problem" for me, more of an annoyance if anything. But you will have to deal with the fact that not everyone is as open-minded and civil as you are (if you choose to date outside you race) There are some pretty ignorant people who sill plague this world, but if you are happy with the situation that you're in, the blatant racism bother you one bit
2006-11-16 10:11:22
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answered by baybeegrl5 4
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the changes would nicely be fairly relaxing and interesting - and would finally develop right into a drag. contained in the period in-between, have a good time with one yet another and also you both only want to be open minded about the position the different individual is coming from, because in spite of the actual shown actuality that cultures are blending extra, there are nonetheless some subject matters that one crew stresses about and different communities could care a lot less about - those will only be a count number of paying interest, speaking obviously and attempting problematic to comprehend. it gained't continually make experience, both of you really want to make your own experience out of it. a minimum of both of think ofyou've got lots to communicate about - "diverse" is relaxing! have relaxing at the same time.
2016-11-24 23:10:28
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answered by sheryl 4
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I'm Indian; my girlfriend is Chinese.
Well, the interracial thing is not a problem. Our parents don't really mind. But I'm Catholic and she's Christian (Evangelical). I'm finding the religion thing to be more of a problem (even though the religions are so close).
2006-11-16 10:03:54
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answered by Bob_123 2
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I don't know if you want to call this a problem but one thing I use to find difficult would be language.I'm guessing you both speak English so that's OK but sometimes the parents don't.Another thing was when they would speak their language in front of me or on the phone I would feel so lost because I would have no idea what they were saying .
2006-11-16 10:38:16
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answered by michelle 2
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I have never had a problem when I have dated Black men.
Except....
I did get some dirty looks form black women.
We are all people, I don't see why color or nationality should matter.
2006-11-16 10:12:40
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answered by clcalifornia 7
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You get looks and strong opinions from people you never suspected of being racist. Mostly it's people who make assumptions about why you're together, and they generally assume the worst.
2006-11-16 10:05:22
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answered by staubfinger 4
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believe me friend there are people dating outside their own species, so keep it in the race and your sure to win!
2006-11-16 10:11:06
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answered by Anonymous
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the parents not approving, but still end up dating each other anyways. i mean, thats what i been thru. my mom hates the girl im seeing lol
2006-11-16 10:03:52
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answered by sh8dybrady120 2
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im salvadorean my boyfriend is white (german) and well hes not a very caring person or like latin people are and we have problems because of so many differences in our cultures
2006-11-16 10:12:20
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answered by Anonymous
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