i'm a shy guy and i just found out a girl likes me. Idk what i should do cuz i don't have her in any classes and i've only talked to her once. It feels akward cuz honestly only a couple girls have liked me, at least i think. plz, i need help lol. should i take it slow and just be friends for a little bit before i ask her out, or should i just ask her out. Just to say i'm in 8th grade, and people are going to the ix for a performence tommorow. Would that be a good time to ask her out if i decide to?
2006-11-16 09:59:29 · 12 answers · asked by ChenggyBoy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
on the performence thing at the ix, we have like 2 hours to ourselves so just telling u people and thanks for the answers!
2006-11-16 10:04:58 · update #1
i agree with u dont do it directly
try it indirect way and take it slawly
try to talk to her through her friends or just try to invent any situation that will allow u talk to her
try to get her e_mail and mail her without her known that is u
just try words in first like ask her about anything in the school
try to say to be close to her
and wait the right time and tell her that u love her
2006-11-16 10:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out it would fill both your hearts with joy. But on the date don't go too fast first become her friend, than speed up after there. The thing is if you don't become her friend first you won't know her hobbies and all these other things about her and you won't be able to have a real discussion. Than she'll slowly depart from liking you and realize it was just your looks.
Don't kiss her like one of the answerers said, at least not before a date it may all be to sudden for her. Flirt with her, leave notes in her locker like "Hey, do you want to meet me after school and watch a movie. I knoow it's sort of last min. but i hope you come." and than give her your adress. But a never ever is writing a note with im language, she'll think you're both just friends because it shows that you didn't take the time to write it out. Give her attention it will make her feel special, you can tell your bf and ask them for advice. May-be tell your friend to play along when you see she's about to come around the corner, talk to your friend and than peek over their shoulder, act like you just saw them, and walk over to them.This makes them feel as if you want to take time with them.
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2006-11-16 18:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by [S.M.I.L.E] :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me. I know all about this. I help my friends all the time and there relationship end out better than ever.
this is what you do, you know where her locker is right???? write a note(not in your handwriting) and write exactly this at the end: yours truly your handsome secret admirer. or during the boring times when you have to watch those boring movies, sit close to her make her laugh. Then, for the next to week kinda be stalking her like you know where she is just come around the coner say hey how are you doin pretty or whatever you wanna call her. then when the time is right(somwhere in the 3rd week.) ask her out. the worst thing she could say is "NO!!!!"" and if your wondrin what grade I'm in it's 7th don't listen to the other people that give you answers. there's suck!!!!!
2006-11-16 18:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her out during lunch or sometime when she's alone without her friends. I have the same problem too except the opposite way. I like someone and I'm shy too. I know how you feel.
-good luck!
2006-11-16 18:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by =\ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing to know is that i'm in 8th grade too, so i know what youre talking about. i think that you should go for the slow approach and be her friend for a while, so you can get to know each other. asking her tommorrow would be too soon, and even if she says yes, you won't know what she likes, so you couldnt give it to her. just ignore the other people
2006-11-16 18:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by zlisa98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to know her a little more. I have been asked out by people I don't know and I told them I wanted to get to know them better. Just hang out with her more or whenever this would be possible, but not as dates. Good luck!
2006-11-16 18:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by The Sun Still Sleeps... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well u should probably be friends for maybe 2 weeks. u should get to know her unless u don't like her. when u guys are friends then ask her out but i wouldn't ask her out at the performance but maybe just say hi to her
2006-11-16 18:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your parents' stance on this is. I'm in the exact same sitch. Whatevr u do, DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT going in secret if your parents don't approve. That's just asking for trouble.
If parents say "YES" By all means!
If parents say "NO", just be friends until your parents say "Yes"
#1denverfan
2006-11-16 18:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by #1denverfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out.
2006-11-16 18:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole D [15 yr old superstar] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes since she already likes you go for it and ask her out already !!
2006-11-16 18:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋