or both ....
if it is personality ... how long will it take to identiy someone ... and does it change over the period?
If it is beauty ... how long will the kiss last? Please think deeply before you answer. I need a good answer. I have a date on Sunday (19 November 2006) to meet a lady. I need to make a decision whether I can kiss her or not. Please be specific. Thank you.
2006-11-16 09:53:23 · 18 answers · asked by Vig 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think people kiss either as a friendly gesture or as a sign that you love that person. If it is the former, it is just touching lightly on the cheek (cheek to cheek) because the other person might not like the idea of your lips touching her cheek. If it is the latter, it is better for you to wait until you know the other person well enough and that you are sure she has similar feelings for you. Love doesn't have to be reciprocal but it is a lot more satisfying if it is mutual. If the other person has no feeling for you, she might find being kissed a bit disgusting. As for how long it takes to identify whether it is someone worth loving and getting serious about, it depends on your emotional intelligence and the other's personality. If you both feel a deep connection with each other emotionally and spiritually, then it is a good sign. Don't let lust rule your head and your heart. It is demeaning to get physically too close to someone with whom you don't really connect.
2006-11-16 10:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-16 09:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by PussyTorpedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it is definately personality.
It is how someone feels about you or treats you and that is the key that unlocks the door to the most beautiful and passionate kiss you'll ever know.
I think it does take more than one date to really know, maybe a couple of dates and you'll know if you have a connection with that person, but really I've been married 20 years and I still find things out about my husband now that I didn't notice back in the beginning, but looks never came into my decision to picking my partner.
2006-11-16 10:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kiss to make them feel something. I want that kiss to be perfect. I kiss so the girl can't walk afterwards and if they can (which they always do) then I know i've failed. I kiss for the kiss and because I like their lips and perhaps they're someone I miss. I kiss for the bliss of it. I can be funny or really sexual, hold them, move away... i really just kiss to express myself without having to think so hard about what i want to say!
2016-03-28 22:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the kiss. From my experience a kiss can be in many ways interpreted. What sort of date is the one on the 19th? You are dateing for a relationship? A business meeting? What kind couse the kiss is of many forms , intensities and confort. If it is a relationship sentimental date than you kiss both beauty and personality, if is a pure platonic one you only kiss beauty. Write me on yahoo messenger so i can gat a more clear vision of your question. great_duke_of_segorean
2006-11-16 10:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appearance is first choice, but you would have to be comfortable with this person first, i was once asked by a man if it was ok for him to kiss me, and i was lost for words, i really did not know what to say, so you the guy should just go for it, and the length of time will be on her response, please don't shove your tongue down her throat start very gently and just let it happen, you will know when to make your move it comes to you, keep some Listerine pocket strips on you, fresh breath is important.
2006-11-16 10:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you meet someone in a club and kiss them, well its their appearance. it should take a few dates to get t know one another but that depends how much you's open up to each other, it could take 3 dates it could take 10.
you dont decide whether or not to kiss her now , you decide there and then and if the moments right then you'll know if its appropriate.
good luck!
2006-11-16 10:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it is ur first date with her y r u thinking about kissing her already. first u should get to know her in a different point of view besides the one u share on the net. don't kiss somebody if u don't know his/her health history, boy u can get any kind of diseases. personally i will wait for a second or a third date to really know if it his/her personality or the beauty.
2006-11-16 10:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think just feel ,if you get this feeling within you to kiss her go for it if you dont then you dont doesnt matter y you get the feeling , because if its a blend of personality and physical appearance that will just mean your likely to enter relationship while if you just go for personality on its own or jus looks on its own it just may mean that your just gonna have a short term thing rather then a long term relationship
2006-11-16 10:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are complicating the whole thing to where it is sounding more like you are getting ready to test drive a car than meet a lady (sounds like for the first time.)
I believe your intentions with this lady should answer your question for you.
Darryl S.
2006-11-16 10:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋