my boyfriend is like 4 years older than me and hes already had sex. he keeps on telling me to do it w/ him. idk wat to do. i mean, yea shure, i really like him but idk wat to tell him. wat do i say?
2006-11-16 09:51:42 · 8 answers · asked by ladypiper04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not ready then tell him...he wont know unless you tell him....and if he loves you he will understand that...and if not he was not worth your time in the first place
If you are ready then tell him that to let him know how you feel just make sure if you guys do decide to have sex you use some sort of protection
1--because he already has had sex it raises his risk for having an std
2--if you are questioning whether or not to have sex you probably are not reaady to have a child
so basically just let him know how you feel either way
2006-11-16 09:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a big step. I am a believer in waiting until marriage, but I will join the real world for a second to help you out. If you are not ready, then he should understand not to pressure you. If he knows that you are a virgin, then he should realize that you have insecure feelings about the whole situation. Ask him to please be patient with you until you decide that the time is right for you. Getting into a fight over sleeping together is stupid! So not worth it!
2006-11-16 09:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by dabremers@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready for sex than tell him and if he doesn't like it then to heck with him.. your feelings should count and he should respect your choses.. Or you could say im saving until im married and if he really loves you who knows he might just pop the question...
2006-11-16 10:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Karisa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your body. If your not ready then its your decision. He cant make you do anything you dont want to do.
And if he gets mad and breaks up with you, then he was just looking for sex.
2006-11-16 09:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by mikey_guinto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say NO! you wait till your ready. look, he might leave you, but then he was just a jerk anyway. have sex when you are ready, not cause some guy pressured you into it. its too big a deal.
2006-11-16 09:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't wanna have sex yet then just ask him if he would mind waiting cause ur not ready if he really likes/loves you he will wait if not then he might not be the right guy for you just basically don't do it just cause he wants u to do it on ur own time basically kinda wat i am sayin is follow ur instincts in wat to do and when to do it
2006-11-16 09:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by wants some help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very easy NO --- if he does not accept that then he does not want to know you he just wants sex so tell him to get lost and look for someone interested in you
2006-11-16 09:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's very simple. Unless you think you're ready for something like that.
2006-11-16 09:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by dark.axxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋