Me and my girlfriend have fought alot lately. She says i don't treat her good and i think she doesn't treat me good. She talks to alot of boys and i don't trust her completely. She's one of those girls who doesn't have alot of girlfriends and has friends who are all boys. So naturally i'd be suspicious. On her myspace she has this boy she knows from florida plastered all over her page. She has a whole paragraph written about him. He calls her everynite and wat makes it worse is she's goin to florida for thanks giving!! I really don't trust her. Technically none of this matters because we jus broke up...but i still care about her alot and i'm wondering if i should take her back if she decides to take the pics on her myspace down and just be a one man woman. what do u think?
2006-11-16 09:50:16 · 24 answers · asked by udon'tknome731 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Asking someone like that to become a one-man woman overnite would be tough, if not impossible. I would suggest that you read the signs out there. This is clearly a girl who wants to be the center of attraction to a lot of guys. I guess she complains that you don't treat her well since you might not be the fawning, affection and attention oozing types. Frankly that would make one sick. Let her go. Stop thinking about all this and move on with your life. You would get to meet new women and can find someone who can reciprocate your feelings. In the interim period, spend time to think why your ex thinks that you don't treat her well. Everyone has flaws and maybe this is a good time to find them and better yourself.
2006-11-16 09:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has found someone else, bro. It is obvious if she is going out of her way to see this guy in florida for thanksgiving. Also another piece of evidence is she has a paragraph about the guy and has his visage all over her myspace. My advice to you bro is find someone else, she obviously does not care and does not love you enough. I would say if you had a harsh time with the relationship in the first place do not set yourself up for a second helping of pain and drama. If you take her back you are also setting yourself up for some rather dire consequences(i.e. new b/f would kick your *** if you were trifling with his girl)
2006-11-16 09:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are now a country song my friend.
It's all over but the cryingggggggggggggggggggggggggggg.
All girls like someone else. (as do all guys). You just have to be the special one in her life.
But be warned that it isn't easy to remain a teen sweetie's best stud for long . Not in this world of ours today, and beside you both sound too Young to be too serious.
how ever you feel now it'll change.
Just ride with the tide and keep a looking and cooking as it's evident that you have competition.
Good luck
2006-11-16 09:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't jump to conclusions or get all weird about it. were they hanging out first? or did she call both of you out there to hang out? hmm... it seems a little odd..but what I would do is just try and remind her why she loves you so much. Do something lovely for her, show her that you're strong and secure. If she knows what's good for her, she'll stop skankin' around (if she is to begin with). I'm sure you're a sweet guy, one way or another you'll be well off. Much luck!
2016-03-28 22:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psycology: She has the right to so no, and somtimes they get histarical over litle things, they like to hear you give in and apologize, try not to make a big deal over it, dont stalk her. personaly I'd call her a s|ut but some guys are like that too. You can (bite back and)get to know one of her Gfriends or follow her to florida and shoot the sonofa... sorry I lost track...
2006-11-16 09:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you guys are BROKE UP! Move on. She likes that guy in Florida and she is gonna' be with him when she goes down there for Thanksgiving, why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with someone else???
Move on dude. PLENTY of other girls out there.
:)
2006-11-16 09:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to find someone esle. Move on and the reason is u have gone down this road once and it sure doesn't work....Find someone that u both enjoy each other and don't fight like cats and dogs.Good luck
2006-11-16 09:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get more information first then when u are almost positive she is seeing someone else you should break up with her before she can get to you, and it can also be embarrassing so you should dump her first if you know she is seeing someone else, because one of my close friends are in this same situation
2006-11-16 09:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sammi Poo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself, it dosen't matter since you guys broke up. i know that is probably not what you want to hear, but it is the truth. if there is no trust then there is no basis to build a relationship on. you deserve someone better, it will get better over time!
2006-11-16 09:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, NO! Why would you take her back? She is just trying to get you to dump her so she won't have to fell guilty. Every sign is there that she likes this other guy. Move on!
2006-11-16 09:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋