I'm in my junior yr in college and the first day of class i saw a guy in which i was attracted to. The feelings got stronger as the semester progressed and finally i wrote him a note. I told him in the note that he seems like a cool person an that i wanted to get to know him better and wrote my number. An hour after handing him the note he called me an we spoke for about 10 mins getting to kno each other. he normally sits to the end of a row beside a friend however the next class he made sure that he was sitting on the next side with an empty seat beside him. we do talk in class about school I've ask him out however he said that he had promissed his GF dinner. we have never spoken on the phone after that but have sent text messages which were general. I told him that i thought he was cute an he said the feelings were reciprocated and wanted to be friends for now because he found me interesting. what does this mean? i tried callin him but he never return my call, what should i do
2006-11-16 09:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the first time, he called you and wanted to get to know you better, that's a big plus. If a guy takes the time to talk to you and get to know you is because something good is going through his mind. At the end you mentioned he has a GF though? Well, for now you should keep talking to him but avoid flirting, you don't want to get in a fight with his GF right? So just keep on talking to him, texting him, etc. and show him what a nice person you are! Hope everything goes well! =]
2006-11-16 09:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabey...he probably dosen't want to play ( cheat ,lie, and hurt his girl if she finds out.) but i would say don't try u make him break up or dont keep going at him cause jus think ...if u were his g/f u wouldn't want any other girl tring to pull him off to the side from u would you ? and yall in college.?.!.that would be to much pressure on him...and You too; cause... "some-one likes you."
and as far as that goes, HE'S( the one that likes u ) looking at u "run from him" ...with u not knowing he likes you...
Be very carefully careful...(Good Luck)
2006-11-16 17:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by lil_chaos85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's attached, you are only a casual friend. At the most you may become his next notch until he leaves her. Do you like the idea of being the other woman? If not, then move on. You are in a crush and you are getting crushed.
2006-11-16 17:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, Niki. I had this same problem w/ a guy, I liked in high school, and what I did---worked. Try it!! 'K? Leave him alone for a few days, maybe weeks,play hard to get, and then maybe he'll ntice you. Don't call, don't write,pretend as though, he's not there. He'll think you gave up on him, and he'll pipe up and take notice in you. Good luck,kid-o & let me know happydebster@yahoo.com
2006-11-16 17:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by deborah s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue being his friend. Since he already has a gf, I dont think it would be right messing up his relationship. But I also think you should make a move,(it might be too late) at the right time I guess...
2006-11-16 17:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by =\ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun, I do not know what to tell you. It sounds like the guy is trying to blow you off. It is either that he wants to keep you on standby in case he has to break up with his g/f, who knows. This is a sketchy and ackward situation that you are in. I seriously think that he rejected your proposal
2006-11-16 17:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that while this new guy is interested in you, its obvious that he cares for his significant other. Let him know that your okay with just being friends. If you can't just be the friend and accept that he has someone in his life, my suggestion is find someone else.
2006-11-16 17:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until he wants to be more than friends. Keep talking to him and just be your self.
2006-11-16 17:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Beckerzz(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww what a sweet kid. he's being nice. take your friendship slow, dont rush to the boyfriend level yet. reel 'em in slowwwly..then you wont hurt him.
2006-11-16 17:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend and don't get serious feelings for him.
2006-11-16 17:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋