There is this girl i like at school. I want to talk to her, ask her out, but I'm not sure what she thinks of me. I sometimes look at her, and she looks back, does this mean she likes me?(im not very attractive) At times i see her at the corner of my eye looking at me, other times I see she doens't seem to care at all. What does this mean? I also want to talk to her, get to know her, but I have never talked to her, is their anyway I can start talking to her and not come off as odd. Any advice is greatly apprechiated. Thank You
2006-11-16 09:45:18 · 18 answers · asked by AdviceGuy399 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT
2006-11-16 10:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone looking back at you doesn't mean they like you. We look at people all day everyday. If you like this girl, smile and speak to her when you meet. Compliment her on her hair style or outfit. Ask her questions about subjects she's very good with. Ask her about her favorite holiday dish and activity. This will start you to talking with her. If she's interested she'll talk back. Notice what she's interested in and that's how you'll get to know her better. Talk gradually and each time you talk, make the conversation a little bit longer. Then, invite her out to a very casual place. Do not put pressure on yourself or her. Neither one of you needs a committed relationship at this time so don't try to pursue one. You're both still very young and need time to mature. If she's not interested, it's not the end of the world. You're young and have your whole life ahead of you and there's plenty of other girls you can meet.
2006-11-16 18:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by saying hello (or something like that) when you look at her and she looks back. Maybe she will be the one to start a conversation with you. Start small though. Work your way up to a conversation. When you see her, say hello, then the next day say, how's it going? Stuff like that. If she's smart, she will know that you are interested. Take it slow...so that you don't come off as odd. Good luck and I hope that this helps!
2006-11-16 17:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by dabremers@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have a class together maybe you could ask her for help on one of the questions in the homework. Try to find a way to sit next to her. Of course, getting in with the friends is always a sure way in. Most importantly when you talk to her, you have to feel confident...think of all the wonderful things (besides looks) you have to offer her. If she is really for you she will like you just the way you are. If she doesnt like you ...dont sweat it there are plenty more girls in the school.
2006-11-16 17:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just go up and talk to her. Talk about a class, or school function. See if she acts like she likes you. If she does, ask her out, if not, just keep it friendly. You'll never know unless you try. Just remember, rejection is sometimes part of trying. It happens to everyone, so don't get upset if she doesn't respond favorably.
2006-11-16 17:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Eric B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately need to start talking to her. See who she hangs out with and maybe get to know those people. If you have any women around you who's style you trust, you can ask them to help you with your unattractiveness. BUT remember this, your attitude is more attractive than youre looks, but you do need to dress good. Focus on staying confident and cool , women love that.
2006-11-16 17:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. But to confirm this be bold, approach her and ask if you could take her out and see the reaction.The actions you are seeing from her are meant to draw your attention. The longer you fantasize on them the more she will get bored and decide to move on. Act now
2006-11-16 17:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. DON'T JUDGE YOURSELF SO HARSHLY. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE ISN'T ALL THER IS. BEAUTY REALLY COMES FROM THE INSIDE. LOVE YOURSELF.
AS FOR TALKING TO HER...ABSOLUTELY DO SO. HOWEVER DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING FROM HER BUT LIGHT CONVERSATION TO START WITH. WOMEN, GIRL OF ARE A MUCH MORE EMOTIONAL NATURE THAN MEN, GUYS.
WILL YOU ALWAYS WONDER, IF YOU DON'T TALK TO HER??? IS THAT SOMETHING YOU WANT TO LIVE WITH THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
GO FOR IT!!!!
MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS basskickinmama@yahoo.com.
let me know how things go.
MY BLESSINGS ARE WITH YOU!!!
2006-11-16 18:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by basskickinmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and talk to her be friends first and take it slow. get to know her don't jump onto anything so u can see 4 sure and not make a fool of yourself
2006-11-16 17:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by southernprincess0607 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courage, courage, courage!! That is all you need. Anything you say would be alright with the girl as long as you are being yourself. And lots of girls love the shy guys!!!
2006-11-16 17:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋