It's been a little over a week since my boyfriend and I have had sex. Though a little over a week isn't a terribly long time, it's not common for us. He's got a 20 page paper due on Monday that he still has a lot to do on. Is it just the stress that makes him seem to distant?
2006-11-16 09:38:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 18 and he's 20
2006-11-16 09:43:09 · update #1
Trust me, when we have way too much on our plates, we can get stressed out pretty easily. It can decrease our sex drives.
Society has this image of us guys always wanting sex, no matter what. But let me tell you, there are times when you just want to go to sleep because you are so tired and exhausted.
This is more true as you get older.
2006-11-16 09:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ed A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stress can certainly take the fun out of a relationship. So can the flu or a cold. Just wait until the paper is done. He will probably be ready to celebrate.
2006-11-16 09:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely so. Stress can play hell on your body. Even if he is thinking about sex, is probably in the back of his mind knowing he has a deadline on the paper. Wait til he turns it in, then you'll notice him change back.
2006-11-16 09:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Eric B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes definitely. the fact that he has to finish the paper traumatized him and stressed him out that he has no time to think about it. but what u should do is to wait for him, i bet after he is through with the paper he will eat up in a new york minute
2006-11-16 09:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 03:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by goldie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there can be many reasons for them not to want to, but I know for sure that stress can definitely be a cause.
2006-11-16 09:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by wackadoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it happens to me all the time. Stress tires you out and if focuses your mind on other things.
2006-11-16 09:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Yo it's Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately when a man is under pressure sex is a far cry from his first thought.Haven't you ever had this happen?
2006-11-16 09:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you still the desirable, sexy babe he met? Or, have you gotten bigger and lazy? This is something BOTH must always work on to keep it hot in the bedroom.
2006-11-16 09:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mark W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Definitely. (from experience)
No stress...a guy can be a rabbit
2006-11-16 09:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋