how do i break up w/ my bf?

Question

ok, i am going out w/ this guy. i really like him, but i also like this other guy. he asked me out and i said yes. so now i am going out w/ both, i feel bad, i mean, im cheating on josh with michael. what can i do?

Answer 1

I think you need to decide which boy you like more and which ever you choose tell the other guy very nicely that you think they would be better off as friends and that you do like him, but you think that would be the best thing for the two of you!
well I hope I helped. Good Luck
-Brittany

Answer 2

The worst thing you can do to a guy is just walk away and say its over. I know thats what guys often do and that is very wrong, but two wrongs dont make a right. So, if you want to be better than that then do it the right way! Talk to Josh and confess that you cheated and that now your dating someone else. Then, tell him how you feel about your relationship with him and tell him that you dont think that its best but that you would like to remain friends. Remember, it is easier to get back together with a friend rather than a enemy. If down the road things dont work out, then go back to Josh and tell him that you were wrong and that you should have stayed with him. I hope that everything works out for you, and please feel free to let me know if i can be of more help.

Answer 3

Rule number one. NEVER say yes to another guy while dating someone else. You should have called it off with the other dude before accepting a date with the new dude. Either way someone is going to be mad or hurt or both. Because if you are out somewhere with new dude, old dude might (and probably will find out). And new dude may be angry with you knowing that you already have a boyfriend.

Answer 4

the only thing u can really do is make a decision. You have to pick either one or the other because having them both wouldn't be fair..you're gonna have to do some soulsearching and choose which one you're going to be with. Then after that you're going to have to be real with the one you chose not to be with and tell him you like some one else. It will hurt him and maybe he might even hate you for it. But it has to be done..

Answer 5

If you really like michael, then you should just tell josh how u feel.

Answer 6

Hmm... first of all, remember the golden rule. "Do unto others as you would have them to do unto you" It makes the world a better place for everyone :-) Other then that... Don't cheat. Tell the poor guy that you are TERRIBLY sorry to upset him, but that you are interested in someone else.

Answer 7

Break up with Micheal or have Josh fight Michael

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Answer 8

You are not married. Be honest with them both. Tell them you want to see them both. With the way relationships are today they would probably be cool with it. Of course it would leave the door open for them to date others. But if you can see them both you arent in love with either one anyway.

Answer 9

JUST TELL JOSH THAT YOU THINK WE SHOULD SEE OTHER PEOPLE===SEE WHAT HAPPENS......NOW ARE YOU GOING TO FREAK OUT IF JOSH FINDS HIMSELF A SEXY LADY?? THINK ABOUT IT......YOU COULD END UP BEING REALLY SORRY OR REALLY HAPPY...BUT YOU'VE GOT TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF 1ST. IF YOU DON'T THEN WHO WILL..KNOW WHAT I MEAN? WEIGH YOUR OPTIONS THEN GO FOR THE GOLD.

Answer 10

well first of all your not ready to have a commited relationship with a boy because you have two boyfriends.you need to tell them both that your not ready to be commited because you like too many people right now and it will be better right now to be single.if you dont want to do this just ask yourself who you really love and who you really want to be with.good luck.