There is a girl that liked me, she asked me for a dance which I refused. I was so silly to have done that. She told me that she broke up with her BF. I took that as a sign to pursue her since I liked her but her BF was the reason I backed off and shyness too.On the first 2 dates, we didn't kiss. On the 3rd date however, I kissed her. She seem to like it. Mind you she invited me to her place for dinner. She told me that she was just getting out of the relationship, she's not sure what I need out of the relationship...... I'm like what the heck? I don't want to get hurt at the end you know.I really like this girl. However, I'm afraid that she might go to her old BF. What should I do? I have feelings for this girl
2006-11-16 09:27:16 · 12 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rebound
Forget about her. You'll only get hurt.
2006-11-16 09:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by crash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow and do not fall head over heels until you have had time to see what her intentions are. Normally a girl will not go looking for another guy until she has her mind made up that it's over with the ex. When a woman has her mind made up, it's made up.
You might let her know you are being cautious because you do not want to take a fall if she decided to go back to ex. See what she has to say about that.
Darryl S.
2006-11-16 17:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude the best thing to do is to let her go. i know it's not going to be easy because u have feelings for her, but if she doesn't want u nothing is going to happen. if whatever u guys have was meant to be she will come back to u. don't pressure her and before u go tell her how u truly feel about her. maybe this last word will make her think twice before she walks out of ur life
2006-11-16 17:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a choice: to you pursue a girl you say you like and risk being hurt, or do you decide the risk is not a gamble you want to take with her. Your choice.
2006-11-16 17:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the dinner, buy her some nice gift or flowers.
Look for the gestures and expressions and Play it by the ears.
Be cautious on what you say and when.... & body Language
2006-11-16 17:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by SAP Guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off for awhile until she lets you know her decision. If you really care for her you will respect her answer .
If she takes too long to decide then it's your turn to tell her that you need to know soon..you need to find some one else if she can't decide soon.
2006-11-16 17:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her straight up if she is still seeing him or thinks she might want him back. If yes, beat it bub, and find someone else. Yeah, I agree, don't be the rebound guy.
2006-11-16 17:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it--you may get hurt, but what if she's the one? Isn't worth the risk
2006-11-16 17:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by nynasethi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to get over the old boyfriend. Don't rush things.
2006-11-16 17:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is if you really like this girl, and you feel you can take it to the next level, you should try to trust that she will be faithful, and that she wont cheat on you.
2006-11-16 17:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by retardedlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋