how do you become popular if your not exactly attractive?

Answer 1

Its all in the attitude hun.. trust me, I've known lots of popular people who were not attractive at all. You gotta be friendly with everyone.. dont act like someone your not just to fit in with the "cool crowd". Its not a big deal.. as long as people respect you, you should have no worries. :)

Answer 2

you do not have to be attractive to be popular. be yourself and show that personality. hang with one or two popular girls or guys soon you will be in the door. my question to you is/ why do you want to be popular? I'm asking because i was and sometimes one wonders what that has to do with anything! you see i liked all types of people maybe that's why i was popular, cheerleader the whole 9 yards.as you get out of school you will see you may only keep a few of those friends and make new ones. I'm a nurse and rarely see any of my prep friends. im still me so you be you.

Answer 3

Well, when I was in high school, very few of the "popular" people were attractive. I think they got to be "popular" because they acted out all the time and thought they were better than everyone. Because self confidence is scarce in high school, people believed that those people were popular. Most of the time those people compromised who they really were to fit in. Ask yourself if it's worth it... after high school no one cares if you played football, were the valedictorian or a cheerleader.

Answer 4

Pick a popular girl at your school that you idolize, but don't make it all about looks, people can be pretty and do good stuff for others too, just ask someone what they think would make you more attractive/popular/kool/whatever you wanna be. try joining a club or after school activity. but no matter what stay true to yourself... if you don't like how somethings going... change it or just don't participate.

hope i helped!

Answer 5

Do a lot of goofy things (funny/silly, not crazy or dangerous).

Be rich.

Be a good athlete, or artist or musician.

Be passionate about something (but not obnoxious).

Be yourself.

Any of these will work, all are satisfying and all are attractive. And hey, if you are popular with just a few people that you like, that is all that really matters.

Answer 6

Popularity is 65% personality and 35% looks

Answer 7

OK, you probubly heard this a million times, but it IS what is on the inside. The people that are so simple minded not to see this are not the type you want around anyway. If you are ugly on the inside, then you have a problem. BUT if you are outgoing and love life, show it. dont let your looks make you shy about having fun and being yourself. i think quiet people are "not exacly attractive." Soooooo have fun, confidence, confidence, confidence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU CAN DO IT

Answer 8

spongebob

>have sweaky clean integrity
>keep your word
>accept what is in your life
>be peaceful
>and never ever ever ever EVER again say or let anyone say
that YOU are not exactly attrcative - for many many many men on this planet you would be the cats meow no matter what you think of yourself!

these things will make you charisma shoot through the roof

if it is not the obvious easy road but it is the path of the ones in the know!

nuthin but love for you

zig

Answer 9

What's your inner worth? Any girl who looks for physical perfection and a nice set of teeth you don't want anyway. So be friendly and open, don't become a wallflower or a prickly pear. Enjoy life and don't be desparate: she'll show up eventually.

Answer 10

Popularity doesn't always have to do with being attractive.