Kids making fun of me.... =[[?

Question

all of my class mates make fun of me cause of my nose.... im white and my nose its just as normal as anyone elses by the size but i got my moms nose.... i have a little bump on my nose... its not like that big but everyone just makes fun of me....
im in middle school, 7th grade and 7th grade is probabaly the hardest year of all......
i cant just tell them to stop saying mean things about me cause because my nose is a little bit different than others.....
i never even really used to notice it untill almost every guy in my class started calling me big nose. i told them to shut up but they were like i wouldnt be talking big nose....
it just makes me feel sooo bad about myself....
help!

Answer 1

Awww honey, ignore them! Even if you do hear them, pretend you don't and start talking to someone else. If they don't get a reaction from you, the point of making fun of you is pointless.
Everyone is different, I hope you don't let it bother you.

Answer 2

Honey, I have a HUGE nose. We're talking, sticking out, long, curved down, huge bump in it and everything. I don't think I've ever had it pointed out in a mean way, but I have aways been paranoid by it.

I used to (And still do) Use my hair to cover my face when I sat next to people, hoping they wouldn't see. This only made people think I was emo, so I get bashed a lot when I'm really just a sweet girl trying to make it through 8th (middle school) just like everyone else.

What you need to do is just roll your eyes at them. Heck, flick them off. Show them your middle finger, and tell them you don't care. They'll back off. They're only doing it to upset you, and if you don't get upset, they'll find someone else. Trust me.

Guys at this age (12-13-14) are pains. They need to grow up. Listen, just brush them off. You know, guys like big noses anyway. And yes, this has been shown in a study. If you want a guy, remember that if the guy really likes you and wouldn't hurt you, they'd take you for what you are: a nice young lady with no big nose.

Over-all, I want you to know that you should take pride in your nose. I'm trying to right now. I'm trying to get over my fear of people staring, because honey, they usually aren't. It's so complicated, but I hope I helped.

Many hugs and good luck my dear. Brush them off. You're better than that.

Answer 3

I have a bump in my nose too...so does my mom...people picked on me a lil for it (n middle school)...so I can relate. Don't listen to them and don't let them make you feel bad about yourself! Middle school years are the hardest, unfortunately, I can say they were my worst.. BUT it gets BETTER!!! I promise!!!
Beauty isn't "perfect". It's little quirks like dimples, the bumps on our noses and your uniqueness that makes you gorgeous. So forget your immature classmates!
AND.....if you need further convincing look at Jessica Simpson. She's a beautiful girl with a "less then perfect nose"...
Try playing up your eyes with amazing makeup, if you want. Having my eyes done up always makes me feel better..(and it probably takes some attention of the bump in my nose.. lol)
Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

Don't worry. You know the number one reason people make fun of others? Because they are jealous of them. So, naturally they find whatever they can to make fun of it. Plus, people make fun because when they do it, it makes them feel better or higher than the person they are making fun of.

Don't worry about what others say. I bet you are really pretty. You know if you ignore comments like that and don't let them nother you, you'll be fine.

And plus, blemishes if you want to call uniqueness that, are what make people look special, and oftenthey are what make them pretty. I've heard guys like girls with a few "blemishes"

Personally, I like girls with "unique" noses. Really.

Also, boys make fun or pick on girls they like (I know cuz it's happened 2 me) even if they do seem to mean it, they might just be acting ;)

Don't feel bad.

Answer 5

Used reversed psycologie. I do and it works everytime. Just say: Ya ya whatever, so i have a big nose is it a crime.

People are stupid in that grade it will get way better in high school trust me.

Oh ya and another secret to make them think you are strong is to NOT SHOW emotion. They want you to do that cuz they think it makes them stronger. and NEVER tell your enemies how u feel trust it only makes it worse.

Answer 6

Don't feel bad about yourself. I know that it's hard at your age to ignore kids like that. But just look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how beautiful you are. And if it comes down to you having to scoop down to there level, cut on them back because we all have flaws but I don't want to give you that as advice bc you would belittling yourself to their standards. When you get older you face with fill out and your nose will fit your face but until then ignore those little kids.

Answer 7

I would start by just ignoring them, and not saying anything. It is hard to argue with someone who is not talking to you. Point being they can't argue or make fun of someone ALONE. If that does not work then I will answer again I guess. I have been there and that is what worked for me. Then they realized I was cool even though I was different. Stay strong, you got it going on, they don't.

Answer 8

Ignore them...choose out the flaws on the ones picking on you, nobody is perfect, they could be jealous,or just trying to fit in.Just like stars.If a celebrity wears something that was out of style, it comes back and everyone copies. So that could be what everybody is doing. One kid points it out so the others follow because they dont want to get picked on themselves. Its funny cause that happened to me but in 8th grade. I just ignored it cause i dont beleive it. I kno im beautiful but not perfect at the same time. So ignore it...they just need to say something about another person to ignore what people say about them. If a boy u like says that...ignore it and think about what you beleive should be happening...like he likes you the way you are.

Answer 9

there's nothing wrong with your nose, it's them. They are real jerks for saying really mean things to you. tell them to go look in the mirror and ignore them. Be happy with yourself. Noone is made the same.

Answer 10

Ignore them... I know that is really difficult becasue i lived something similiar but because i´m fat, so first it really hurted, but then when i ignore them and i was like it didn´t care what they say, they sttoped doing it; and then I got very friend of some of the kids that make fun of me and even with one of them, I dated for some time... that´s life!! So please try not to feel so bad, becasue it will pass very fast in your life!!!